If a guy is insecure in a relationship, does it allow him to restrict what a girl wears and control who she sees and what to think?
No way my bf gonna tell me what to wear.... and who i see...hmmm...=/ i guess he could tell me hes not pleased with it but its really my decision
that would be called totalitarianism so no. i think the safest thing to do is just have the guy voice his worries about her to her and just let her know what he's feeling and if she's a good gf, she'll at least talk it out with the bf.
If he is so insecure about the relationship to control what you wear and what to think, maybe he shouldn't be in the relationship or grow up. About who you see, if he is adamant about 1 or 2 people whom he really dislike, then maybe its okay.
for me, i'd put in my 2 cents if she's wearing somethin "slutty" and if she respects my opinion she'll cover up a bit. i dun care bout nethin else... she can see whoever she wants... and in terms of thinkin, i'd respect someone who can think for themselves.
I think the same... I could accept his opinion if he says... But if he forbid me something... Then I will do exactly the opposite hahahaha... Don't try to control me... Otherwise I break up! =) If he's telling me it's not good, I'll try to think his way... and even when I think he's wrong... I'll talk with him... But yeahh... Don't try to forbid or oblige me! -what?
right on! if you want to be a slut, be a slut. if you want to be an elephant, be an elephant, etc. be what you want to be
lol sharpie... good one cept if their my gf... and they wanna be a slut, they can be a slut without me. that may go for elephant too! lol but yea, u girls do wut u want!
I definitely suggest that girl to break up with a controlling, demanding and strict guy like that. It's not worth having a boyfriend that treats you like nothing. In the long run, the girl's future wouldn't be anything except sadness and pains.
i think you can express to a your girl what you think about her, but never be imperative. a good mate would always consider what you say.
