Phyphy Needs Help: Girl On Girl Problem

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by PhY pHy, Aug 15, 2007.

  1. MissCheekS

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    lol...when i went to china...
    my 27 y/o cousin was holding my hand when we went to bed!
    shes such a sweetie....
    hahaha...i was like...ok whatever....
     
  2. sweetbery

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    Is she cute Phy Phy?
     
  3. PhY pHy

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    ^^^NO...not the gurl type lor...tomboy...
     
  4. zero_c

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    Doesn't mean she can't be cute.
     
  5. MissCheekS

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    Hmmm..nah...most of the "butch" type of lesbians are a bit >_< imo...
    lots of them have very short hair and wear baggy clothes....
    i see them in the ladies room sometimes hahaha...
    there have been quite a few times where i thought...whats this guy doing here?
    Turns out to be a butch =O
     
  6. ipepsi

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    hmmm sounds interesting,take pictures...
     
  7. MissCheekS

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    dont think thats a good idea...hahahaha
    what if they use there "man power" and beat me up muahahaha...
    just kidding...butta a bit weird to take pics in the toilet right :p
     
  8. philostrate

    philostrate Well-Known Member

    lang lui and lang mui imo, don't encourage abnormal sexual orientation at such a young age lol....that's why i always avoid being intimate with my friends (best friends exceptional). The way I dress is a bit tomboyish also lol...I don't want people to think differently..

    maybe she feels attracted to you because she feels comfortable with you. i think she's the kind of emotionally attracted to you and not sexual attraction. since it's only a oneway attraction and you won't get turned on you can always avoid the worst..I like to take care of friends younger than me. I'll buy them things they like and become protective. It's just my way of strengthening bonds
     
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  9. Sephiroth

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    what i think is--
    Tom boys know that they were not attractive to guys so they go for girls
    or maybe they think thats cool or sth~_~
     
  10. ipepsi

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    i mean since she's all up on you just snagg a pic when she's right next to you. lol
     
  11. runtohell121

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    lol i think theres so many tomboys in high school now a day.. .at the school i go to.. theres seems to be a lot of tom boyish girls lol
     
  12. philostrate

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    it's not necessarily like that...I studied in a girls school and saw a lot of good looking tbs or even beautiful 'girls' if they were willing to dress properly. I just think it's kind of wasted for them lol...but that's just the matter of time...those tbs I've known in high school turned out to be more girly when they are in their 20's. it's just all excitement and immature thinking in their youth..
     
  13. PhY pHy

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    OH MY GOODNESS!!! today i went and saw a movie with her
    and another frd....and today she wore GIRLY clothes...and she
    has a PURSE with her...me and my other frd was shocked...and
    out of the blue she slapped my ass...-.- i was soooo *ai mei* *oi mui*
    dunno what to do...now im scared that the reason that she dressed pretty
    was bc of me....ahhhhh....im not lezbian...helpies?
     
  14. MissCheekS

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    Phy.....i dont understand why u go to the movies with her....?
    would u go to movies with a guy u dont like but is touchy....=/ makes no sense lar....
    i would feel uncomfy...so no way id go
     
  15. PhY pHy

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    ^^^i take her as my frd...she doesnt act that eay all the time...
    shes really nice and all that...hanging around would be okie...
    but i just wanna tell her i dunt like gurls...

    urgh...and i dunt wanna lie i have a bf or actually find one
    bc of her...
     
  16. chickenutbread

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    ^maybe you can just check out guys with her? like say "ohh, that boy is so cute!" and start talking about what you like about guys?
     
  17. MissCheekS

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    yeah just talk about an imaginary guy u like phy....

    im sure she'll get the hint
     
  18. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    ^^^oh shes not completely lez...shes bi..she likes Jiro from farenhheit and
    she once pursuaded a guy...but that guy didnt like her so yeah...
     
  19. chickenutbread

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    haven't you heard of invisible man? ;) hehe

    and to be honest i probably would have just avoided her already or asked her? don't know how you could hang out with someone you feel uncomfortable around..

    i'm still wondering about the "touchy"?
     
  20. MissCheekS

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    Well...ass slappin is quite touchy...
    i mean i dont mind my gfs doing it...cuz i know they wont get turned on lol

    Yep...i would have set things straight with her too...