Phyphy Needs Help: Girl On Girl Problem

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by PhY pHy, Aug 15, 2007.

  1. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    Okay!!! I Shall Tell Her Tomorrow!!!!!!!
     
  2. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    Maybe when she was slapping her ass she was saying "Good job"
     
  3. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    confrontate her with it is the best solution I guess...
     
  4. chonnien

    chonnien New Member

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    if you're really not into that kind of stuff - you should tell her that you're not interested in that kind of stuff right away. if you're emberrassed to say it .. say it when you guys are just joking around ~ so she'll get the message and not ruining the friendship you guys already ahve.. but if it's really apparent then just tell her straight up
     
  5. Sephiroth

    Sephiroth Well-Known Member

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    if u don't say it...
    things might turn even worst later
    so say it straight!
     
  6. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    phy phy not only attract guys now she attract girls too haha
     
  7. sweetbery

    sweetbery Well-Known Member

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    i think thats a sign..lol
     
  8. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    tell her u love her?
     
  9. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    ^^NO...i sed i think i like this guy...(which i dunno who...hes made out of air...LOL)
    and i can tell that my other frd kinda gets the message...but shes like..who who who...
    and asking me if hes cute or hot...im not really good at lying at the spot when
    shes throwing questions at me...but good thing my other frd was like...ayia...its her
    situation...when shes ready to tell she will...i dunno if she got anything
    out of my little fib ther...but ill have to see...i dunt wana not be frds with her..i duno >.>
     
  10. chickenutbread

    chickenutbread Well-Known Member

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    ^that's good. not the lying. but that your friend looks like she gets the message? well, update us if anything happens.. and about liking guys, it's like an on and off thing. you just as easily say "i thought i liked him but he did something that just grosses me out" or something like that if your friends are pushing you too hard. you're so nice.. still want to be friends with her.. :)
     
  11. Dark-X

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    Good Job getting through the first part. Now you just need a solution to her curiosity.
    Here's a suggestion maybe over a period of time when she calls you to hang out you can tell her that you had plans to hang out with your bf today. Then after X days you can tell her that you guys broke up. This should work assuming you plan everything you're going to tell her and not pick up the phone when you're supposely no t home.

    Note: This is just a suggestion.
     
  12. Shini_D

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    honestly phy.... u shud tell her straight that what happens between the two of you is getting a little uncomfortable, just say, "I'm gettin a strange vibe off you, and no offence, but me and you are STRICTLY jus FRIENDS."

    but the way you keep backing her up, who knows, you might be growing fond of your lovely friend lol
     
  13. joannang

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    are you straight? if you are then drop hints that you only like guys so she'll back off. but if you're not sure then maybe you could experiment to reassure yourself
     
  14. ab289

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    maybe she's interested in a 3some? that's why she's interested to know who and if he's cute. when there's a sign up list for the 3some, let me me know pls!

    well, are you overreacting? she may just being girly. i thought it's always cool for girls to be a little touchy feelly. what's a little touchy? besides her telling you that she likes both guys and girls, i don't think there's anything to be concern. now, if a guy does that to me, i'll kick his butt. but girls ... they are a little touchy. guys hand in hand walking down the street ... GAY. girls hand in hand walking down the street ... NORMAL!
     
  15. The_Jelly

    The_Jelly NSFW? :P

    You could just see how it goes. You're 15, people your age are inquisitive. Anyways, guys don't mind if you're a lesbian or not ;)
     
  16. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    AIYA....it just makes me kinda wanna move away from her
    lots when she get "SUPOSEDLY over friendly..." but i really
    dunt wann lie...cuz i did once to break up with someone
    but then it turned out the worse thing ever...even tho this
    time its different i really dunt wanna lie any more lies...
    and im having a BBQ party for my Bday at my frds house..
    and im just afraid she'll do any weird thing infront of my other frds...
     
  17. Shini_D

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    tell her what i said above!!! say "no offense but...your being a little TOO close for comfort. I don't swing that way." lol
     
  18. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    ^^^omg...i think she gets the message now...or maybe shes
    too busy with her Uni problem...lol..well...at least for the moment shes not too touchy
     
  19. chickenutbread

    chickenutbread Well-Known Member

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    :) haha. yay! she's still one of your good friends then?
     
  20. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    well..i guess?!?!