just curious, what do you think about a guy who doesn't give gifts to his gf what about if you were that girl? one of my ex's was like that, never gave me a single gift, instead he would spend money on going places like events, dinner, and gas for driving but i dont have a single phyiscal thing i could say he gave me his now gf talked to me about this issue she has been dating him for three years and he only got her a gift once, but that was more he bought something to replace something of hers that was broken but it wasn't like a present but he did buy her a (single) flower once, but only because they got into a fight
well sometimes it is hard to make a choice for gifts and it is not easy to know the right time to give gifts maybe i will give one on the day i confess lol but after that i don't think i will always get my gf any gifts(unless it is a special day)
Wow...i assume hes not poor because he spends money on other stuff.... damn that guy is stingy tight ass hahahaha.... I hate stingy guys!! I think i would mind because I am the kinda girl who likes buying gifts for my loved ones... and when u give, give, give and never get anything back..... =/
well some guys think its a big deal to get a gift, it has to at least satisfy the girl, so instead of thinking about all that stuff they just don't, and care more about where to bring the girl and where to eat but i think guys should at least give their girls a present on valentines day and their b-day, and if he's a christmas guy then christmas, otherwise theres no point of giving a random gift even though its quite nice to receive one everyone once in a while
oh but he isn't cheap he took me to some real expensive places just too lazy to think of what to get me (weird, he did help my best friend pick out a present for me after we broke up)
Wow, you are actually friends with your ex's gf now... and you guys talk abt your ex? That's weird IMO Neway, a guy who doesn't buy any gifts for his gf would appear to be a not so thoughtful guy...
if your boyfriend brings you to expensive places, that still can be technically considered as him getting you gifts, except in this scenrio it's digested.
My current boyfriend doesn't actually give gifts unless it's a special occassion like Valentines/b'days or anniversaries.... he doesn't "think" about surprises or anything like that, but if we're shopping and I point out that I like this or that, he'll get it for me... I suppose that's good enough in a way?? But with your ex not even giving presents during special occassions, that's a BIG worry!!!
Gifts being given at certain times is good...but giving all the time is too much...it's more important that you have a good relationship!
i like gifts... it doesn't have to b something expensive... it could b something small... a DIY card, a bottle of cleanser i run out or even a hemorrhoid cream... just something to show that he's thinking abt me...
that i do understand i just wish i could have a physical good i could show off to my friends and brag "look at what my bf/ex gave me" ~giggle~
what about her bday? they're already together for 3 years rite? and what about pictures? that's a physical thing either?! has she ever told him about it?
he wouldnt give her a picture frame if that's what your talking about i mean he will take pictures with her, but he isn't the one so say, let's take a picture it would more be she asking him to take a picture with her
u can do that, show them your tummy after a good meal. say "arent u guys jealous that its bigger than yours... " your friends will envy u =) i dont buy much for my ex... sometimes she'll say she want this or that n i'd get it fo her.
same for my bf... well... sometimes when he's got the digicam with him... he'll make a picture of us together... but mostly I have to ask it myself either. and gifts... he only gives me presents when we have something to celebrate (birthday, 1 yr together, valentinesday) but yeahh.. it's just the way he is... cant change that rite? should accept it i guess
yup u fell in love with him the way he is... cheap and stingy if he started giving u gifts more, u might not like him so much. lol girls are complicated like that.
