what did you learn about your ex after the break up

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Aug 21, 2007.

  1. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    that he will never change...even after break up...
    still the same thing....
    what a pity!
     
  2. would u get back with him if he changed :p
     
  3. MissCheekS

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    Hmmm...dont think so....
    last time i thought he changed...after a month he was the same person as before...
    and this time when i decided to break up....my special feelings were all gone already....
    what was left was the feeling that i care a lot about him because we have been together for such a long time and were so close to eachother...
    just realized that i was being with him because i hope he'd change and that things would be the same as it was before...
     
  4. awwww... too bad... he missed out... which means i got lucky... j/k :p
     
  5. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    wuahaha...yeah i knew i was gonna meet someone special like u...so i broke up with him lor
     
  6. tien317

    tien317 Well-Known Member

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    We make better friends than a couple...
     
  7. pak

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    I broke up with mine ages ago but she still have a special spot inside my heart. Although we haven't spoken much since we broke up, but recently we spoke for the first time 2-3years. I thought we could become good friends, but it was hard talking to her, the memories came rushing back. Sometimes we can have a conversation for hours but sometimes she would only give me 1 worded replies and breaks off the conversation completely. So in the end I made the decision to stop talking to her and just let her get on with whatever, maybe that's what she really wants. To move on and forget about the past. I don't blame her though. Everyone thinks and does things differently. -shrug
     
  8. Kaitou_Kid

    Kaitou_Kid Well-Known Member

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    that he really knows nothing about me and he was my biggest mistake! :( might sound cruel, but true!
     
  9. deep2000

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    Absolutely nothing. I ended up repeating the same bad habbits I have in each of my new relationship with people. Except the difference is just someone new. Where as I suppose to learn from all the mistakes I've made when the time I got dump. The reason I refuse to change stil to these day, I think I am not at fault
     
  10. lookout

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    I broke up... reason she cheated on me (3 year ago).... I dumped her before she found out.
    The last time I heard her voice - she was crying on me over the phone and she kept calling me and cry and cry.... I hang up every time she call then she stop calling that night... it was over far as i know...

    After years gone I haven't seen her or contacts however a friend of her told me she dating someone new and she was pregnant and getting marry soon...
     
  11. superbug9

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    It's too hard for me...After breaking up...we can't be friends....
     
  12. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    yeah, i'm trying to elarn from that mistake too, lol.
    i pretty much lost MY "perfect" boyfriend, my ex, he was everything I could have wanted, but third party and impulse caused me to break up with it, it was after a year of being mean to him, as he tried to be friends with me, I realised what a bitch I am, and how stupid I am, but it's too late for that now...




    yeah, I think that's the best...because if the relationship had a big impact, it is usually hard to be friends with all the memories and stuff...
    I think I should do that, but I can't because we hang out in the same group of friends...
    Aiyy....

    BTW....love your avatar! hahaha
     
  13. one in particular was learning how all my other friends felt about her... on the note of HOW THE HELL DID I STAND UP TO ALL THAT BS..... i hung out with her once and she complains and is pushy like no other....
     
  14. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    I learned that life is a lot less stressful without her.
     
  15. harris

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    master of manipulitation.
     
  16. i21

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    i learned that she's a banana. Asian on the outside but a true white person on the inside. Why? she's dating a white guy now.
     
  17. wheezo

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    im actually changin bit by bit...

    i learned that there's no such thing as true love... and you can have great feelings(love) with anyone...in the beginning... and girls are evil... and hey... i learned to have fun =) and school sucks... no wait, i been knew that, it just sucks more when you're in school more.
     
  18. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    aw so sad, so negative
    if girls are so evil (which i do agree with)
    than why not start liking boys instead?
     
  19. wheezo

    wheezo Well-Known Member

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    that's not even an option... that's disgusting.
    btw, guys are pretty evil too... some guys, like myself is an asshole at times.
    so it evens out... well yea...
    a girl-friend of mine called me wen she was drunk last night and was depressed because 2 of her guy-friends called her up and asked her to come over or if they could come over... (2 separate frat guys at different times) She said no to one... and he got upset, said no to the other and he just hung up. (She's not that type of girl, she's really nice) Those are assholes right there that I'd be happy to use as punching bags. However, I tried comforting her but it was difficult, because I hurted her in the past also but not like that... but she did bring it up (something that happened 7 yrs ago... girls don't forget) I wasn't planning on getting into a relationship, I just "talked" to a bunch of girls (6 at once was the most i think) and ended up hurting them... -.- yes, i'm an asshole.
     
  20. unclelooi

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    she is my first love....unforgetable