what do you hide about yourself

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Aug 21, 2007.

  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    lots of people (not all) hide something about themselves, like a quality or a personality trait or an interest, when in a new relationships

    do you?
    and if so, let's share













    i know i do
    i'm embarrassed at being an otaku (anime fan), so even though my friends and bfs know that I am a fan, they dont know how MUCH of a fan i am
    I do admit to them that sometimes I am busy, because I am going to an anime convention, but it stops off at that. When i come back, i dont share my pictures (which i take a ton), i dont show off half my costumes, and i dont talk much about my experiances (unless they are a fellow otaku)
     
  2. Inuyashasamashmu

    Inuyashasamashmu New Member

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    exact same thing here....=(
     
  3. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    i like to hide stuff about my backround and my past. unless the girl already knows me and who i am
     
  4. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    I try to hide as much as possible.
     
  5. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    what if you and smallrinilady were dating?
    both of you like it so much...
    but dont share it together...
    thats quite stupid rite?!
     
  6. NOLEE

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    I don't hide anything about myself.. if certain subjects come up, then they do. But if I'm just starting to get close to them then I wouldn't tell him all my secrets then, they have to earn my trust for. but overall I like to be honest and get their reaction done if I think they wouldn't like it. If they don't like some of my interest then that's fine, they don't need to like everything I like, but I'd like them to know what kind of person I am and accept it
     
  7. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    actually if it was a fellow anime fan, i'm more open
    that's why i have a few friends outside my kore group that i really like talking to about this stuff

    i guess it would be much better if we shared that as a common interest, but i bet i would hide other things from Inuyashasamashmu that i might be ashamed of
     
  8. shenhin81

    shenhin81 Member

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    well, for starters, things to hide are normally bad habits that will drive him/her away. then have to find a way to get rid of the habits, or...... persuade him/her to accept it
     
  9. anakemas

    anakemas Member

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    i hide everything about me....coz i wan thm to find out themselves
     
  10. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    hmm ok...
    i supposed to tell my bf anything
    except when i know he doesnt like it or something like that
    we just share our ideas etc
     
  11. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    i'm a private person in general. I do not share anything unless people specifically asks me about it. even then, there are just alot of things i do not share.
     
  12. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    even your bf/gf? -ohmy
     
  13. WinterSky

    WinterSky Well-Known Member

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    i tend to hide stuff about my parents... but i'm pretty open about myself heh... got some great stories from when i was a lil kid. when ur running... peek before you turn that corner >.< cuz vases can go anywhere
     
  14. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    no. i meant friends, co workers, forums
     
  15. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    tried this
    like see if my bf could figure out my little likes or dislikes
    (like how i like to rub my feet between the blankets before i sleep)

    some things he just couldn't figure out
    mad me kinda sad
    lesson learned, dont expect everyone to be able to figure things out
    and not everyone is that observant
    HA HA HA
     
  16. i try to hide my gut... n all the other flabs i have hanging...

    and my room... it's a total mess
     
  17. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    i dont really hide stuff i think =/?
    im quite straight to the point...if a guy doesnt like it or cant handle it...i guess he doesnt like me enough
     
  18. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    i don't think i hide anything. i think its more of as time goes by, u realize more and more about ur other half. does that make any sense? i'm sure everybody does not start out in their true colours.
     
  19. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    everything.
    more like extreme privacy.
     
  20. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    haha...yeah but ur just extremely stingy when it comes to private stuffz anyway...
    hope ur not like that in real life mystery man