What to do if you really love a player?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by nicnic, Aug 31, 2007.

  1. nicnic

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    What to do if you really love a player? What is the best way to distance from him figurely. I can't get him out of my mind...It has been for 2 years almost...
     
  2. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Go play with him.
     
  3. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    2years??? wow...u got it bad

    Hmmm....i dont know why...but i seem to find players attractive too hehe...
    but learnt my lesson....if u choose to go ahead with it be aware that u can get burned
    best thing is to not answer his calls, try to avoid him, dont contact him and when u see him just briefly say hi and keep on walking...
    tell ur friends u dont wanna hear about his stuff....
    and of course meet new cool decent guys~

    u know one of my friends was in love with a guy...he was a player...but he changed because of her...
    I wouldnt put my hopes on that...but u know mostly when guys are a bit older they tend to become normal and serious.

    anyway...goodluck -flow
     
  4. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Does he know that you love him or its a secret love?
     
  5. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    wat is a player?
     
  6. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    According to dictionary.com, a player is defined as

    1. a person or thing that plays.
    2. a person who takes part or is skilled in some game or sport.
    3. a person who plays parts on the stage; an actor.
    4. a performer on a musical instrument.
    5. Informal. a participant, as in a conference or business deal.
    6. a sound- or image-reproducing machine: a record player; a cassette player; a videodisc player.
    7. a gambler.
    8. Slang. a person engaged in illicit or illegal activity, esp. a pimp.
    9. a mechanical device by which a musical instrument, as a player piano, is played automatically.
     
  7. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Mdd smart ass haha

    "8. Slang. a person engaged in illicit or illegal activity, esp. a pimp."

    MUAHAHA....Thats funny
     
  8. uraha

    uraha Well-Known Member

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    become a player your self
     
  9. chic

    chic Well-Known Member

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    In terms of relationships, a "player" is basically a man or woman who dates people one after another without ever harboring genuine feelings for them.

    There are two types of players. There are the ones who try to get into your pants, the hit-and-run type. And then there are the ones who toy with your emotions by trying to win your heart and then crushing it once they get it. Both types are usually involved in several simultaneous relationships.
     
  10. DeX

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    Players? No problem.. Find one day bring bring him to a hotel.. Fuck him, drug him then take his photos then put it online ^.^ He's gonna be so screwed all his life.
     
  11. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ok? and what will you achieve by doing that?
    a bit too much work to "screw someone over"
     
  12. DeX

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    Well, it might be a good way to show the world how cheap a guy he is... Photos available for free on the internet. Make him run out of business so that he/she cannot screw any more innocent ppl.
     
  13. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    he might seem cheap...but what good is she if she just f's him to get whatever u think she will get...
    to me this seems like a useless/meaningless action....

    besides that...it has never been a problem for guys to slept around...unlike for girls
     
  14. DeX

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    I'm saying the the view point of a guy actually.. I don't think a girl should simply f around for revenge. It's a bit dangerous.. For guys... that's how we deal wif players =D

    As for girls, here's my suggestion. Tell all the girls you know how a player he is. Evey time you see him you scold him loudly... Cry out loud all the stuff that he did. Dun giv him face. Or another way, get a better bf and show how much he's missed in his life. A good girl =D
     
  15. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    but nicnic didnt give us too many details...maybe hes a player but he doesnt know she likes him or didnt mistreat her....
     
  16. DeX

    DeX Member

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    Haih... like nicnic's case ah... this she better get to know more guys lor... Maybe the guy very handsome that's why you cannot forget him... But there are many more handsome guys out there that are not players. Give yourself a chance...
     
  17. [N]

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    As for girls, here's my suggestion. Tell all the girls you know how a player he is. Evey time you see him you scold him loudly... Cry out loud all the stuff that he did. Dun giv him face. Or another way, get a better bf and show how much he's missed in his life. A good girl =D




    lol that's just feeding the players their rep, and the sex thing, people would think the one doing it is a slut cause the supposed "player" is being victimized lol. simply don't hate the player hate the game, go find someone else, if your heart's broken then too bad because "players" ain't gonna feel sorry for you, just take it as a lesson in life...
     
  18. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    get to know more other guys..thats what i suggested as well
    and er...its not all about looks...
    it takes more than looks to get someone hooked...trust me...
    it takes skills hehe
     
  19. tszeng

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    handcuff him in ur basement
     
  20. dunno where you know him from... but just try to avoid him.. if you always bump into him when ur clubbing just dont go there....
    if you really want to forget someone, its the best to just dont see him.. or try to contact him... you gotta be strong ;) just keep in mind.. in the end its the best to forget him :)