Do you forgive and forget?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Aug 28, 2007.

  1. socaialv

    socaialv Member

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    I can forgive, but I cannot forget the lesson life gave me
     
  2. OMG!!! this is the 2nd time i've seen knoc answering a question!!! must b a miracle!!
     
  3. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Hahaha...yes...miracles happen once in a while dawn -sorc
     
  4. hopefull one day he'll show us his true self... :p

    wishful thinking
     
  5. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    People cannot live without hope....hope is a good thing :D

    -sorc i will wish upon a fallin star....
    though i strongly doubt it will come true
     
  6. oh wot did u wish for?? wot did u wish for??
     
  7. maybellina

    maybellina Well-Known Member

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    I would forgive but I won't be able to forget...
     
  8. deep2000

    deep2000 Member

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    Depending on what situation it is. Such as cheating wise i maybe able forgive but not forget. Call me dumb so to say. There are just things when is broken it wont be the same after reparing
     
  9. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    If it's something small and the person explained to me his/her reason I'll probably forgive although forgetting is a bit harder for me.

    But if people are trying to stab me in the back or accuse me falsely and on purpose I'll NEVER forgive nor forget.

    Can't remember it so I guess it's something very minor. I do remember the things someone has done to me that I've never forgiven nor forgotten but that's not the question lol.
     
  10. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata


    Like the sig thief alert :p
     
  11. yip

    yip Well-Known Member

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    i forgive but i dunt forget!
     
  12. sitohbelady

    sitohbelady Member

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    forgive and forget...and think the happy side of life...
     
  13. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    it really depends on what the fault is...very little mistakes i never remember but if it's somethign that goes against my value or beliefs then i would lose all my respect for that person...at the point i don't think it even matters if i forgive or not right? it just doesn't matter anymore. and if i've decided to forgive someone i think it's only fair to not bring it up again and let it be forgotten..unless i shouldn't forgive them in the first place
     
  14. shy31279girl

    shy31279girl Well-Known Member

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    For me depending on the issue, I will usually forgive but not forget.
     
  15. jazlynnyee

    jazlynnyee Fantabulous!!!

    i think it's still rather relatively easy to forgive and sometimes forget... but to be forgiven, that's another story. people tend to come prepared to forgive, but they don't come prepared to be forgiven.

    * forgive your enemies and love them... they'll go crazy trying to figure out what you are up to (nothing annoys them so much)... hahaha!! -devil
     
  16. superbug9

    superbug9 Well-Known Member

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    It depends what that person did....