id have to say i fall inbetween the whitewashed asains and asianonly asians. i find people of all races attractive. but when looking for my guy, id prefer one of same race. its not that i only find asian guys goodlooking, because i dont. its more of a cultural thing i guess. mixed kids are pretty though. =O
lol, something like this came up in another thread lol. nah it just comes down to what you prefer. cant help it if you dont find physical attraction to another race other than the yellow hahaha.
I don't think preferring to date someone of similar race is racist. Relationships are not only about physical attraction, it's also about how secure you are with a person. Some people feel more secure with a person that they can relate to, someone they share common backgrounds and values (languange, culture, religion ect.) with. There's nothing wrong with that. I mean, you can probably find someone with your values in any culture, but it's obviously going to take more digging. If language is an issue, it can be especially difficult to truly know the person. For example, if you observe kids in a new class, you'll notice Whites will usually talk with Whites first, Blacks with Blacks, and Asians with Asians because they feel these are the people they are most familiar with. Then, as the weeks go by, the groups will divide again and unite according to interests (music, fashion ect. ect..) It's human nature. I think if people understand this, they'll be less likely to take things the wrong way. You shouldn't confuse ethnic preference for racism.
It is natural for all of us to feel uncomfortable around those different race to us. For most of us making friends with different races is quite easy, getting further is hard. In a love relationship, people find it hard to meet standards of parents and the general community on what type of person you should go out with. I guess, I can be called racist 2 for expressin my view like so, but meh, its how i feel
ummmmm my mom told me no mexicans, lazy whites, blacks and... basically she told me if i wanted a furure, i should pick a chinese boy >< yeahh my parents are pretty racist ><
What about Eurasian? Are they considered asian to you all? I see them as white. No offense to anyone in here.
hispanic and white gurl catches my eye, but only for "DATING", but being asian it makes the possibly foolin round w/ them kinda out the window asians love lal te way!
yea i think i have been bred to procreate with only chinese girls to make chinese babies who will one day grow up to be successful people. but yea i think it's a matter of culture and how much you want to preserve and grow into it. many people like to expand their horizons and get into interracial marriages and relationships.
hahaha thats like my mum, no coloured people apart from viets, chinese, orientals, and she's partically ok with whites haha. Black is a big no no lol as standard in most chinese familys hahaha
i like both reasons are the non-asians cant communicate with my parents. so speak english my friend xD and the asians well you jsut have that click. * cant explain that *
whoever you fall love with is the person u fall in love with, u cant do nothing about it. chose who u will, stick with that person, be content. live for your parents or live for yourself, its up to you.
Speaking about race im chinese... but i cant get any chinese girls that is way too funny i mean i tryed but nothing seems to happen... chinese girls these days go for guys way off the limit they have to be cute sexy charming or what every are on the list.......but for like english or other race such as black or asians they cool... dont know why is that? maybe im ugly so cant catch chinese girls attention but they so so cute i really wanna go out with one lol.....-flow
well nothin much I could do I'm already mixed I'm jus here to see where life takes me but I find more white gurls look my way even tho yellow still makes me mellow
i want a mix between white n asian... that can speak cantonese... that's hawt. =) but chinese n viets are fine... id prefer chinese over viets though. i think chinese girls are nicer. =)
My sister's the same way. She prefers Asians. And by simple definition, I suppose that's being racist. But at the same time, you're attracted to what you're attracted to. My white friends don't get it, though. I used to be the same way - I find a larger percentage of Asian guys attractive versus guys of other races. But now I'm dating a white guy who I find more attractive than any guy I've ever met. *laughs*
