All of the above are acceptable, mind you tho some are better than the other. Personally, i would forgive and forget because i dont see no point in arguing with idiots who spread lies. Initially i might feel hurt and betrayed, but after, i will think "whats the big deal?* because ppl see you for you, not what they hear. The ppl who heard the lies might look at you suspciously but after they see the "true" you, they will know the truth and also, there's no point in trying to prove your innocence verbally cuz IMO, actions say a thousand word.
Since I'm pretty sick already, I'll put in all my energy to make sure that person will never have a good minute in their life. Maybe frame him for murder..
maybe revenge will solve the feelings you feel towards that person, but sometimes it will not... for me Id probably give em a big ass bitch slap and never acknowledge them again
if u get revenge u will still be in the same situation as u were before so it solves nothing, dont sink to that persons level. i believe everybody will be accountable for what they say and do so dont worry, they will face up to what they have done. Forgive the person, until you forgive you wont be able to truly move on, its not humanly possible to forget, nor is it safe to forget. just stay away from that person and pay them no attention. just focus on getting your life back on track, time thinking about that person is time wasted.
agreed with master_g, you won't achieve anything by getting revenge, it might lighten your feelings, but it won't change your current situation. So it actually doesn't help you out much... You'd better waste your energy on something useful
I'd definitely think of getting revenge, but I wouldn't go through with it. I might slap them though, but then I'll probably just get over it. I might not be all friendly with them, but I won't really hold a grudge against them
^I like you. Although I wouldn't go as far for framing them for murder, I'll certainly make them regret their actions. And I know I'm quite good at it. -cool2
It's not like I'm revenging for anything and everything...-unsure Only backstabbers who'd caused serious troubles for me like in OP's story. (just make them loose their jobs...) -devil
Agreed, dont kill ppl =/...thats a bit too extreme I know i would try to find a way to get revenge... but dont go too far you dont wanna end up in jail because of those ppl yeah?
Really, rising above such idiocy is your best bet here. Live your best life possible will be the most effective (and advantageous) revenge you can possibly find. Make living to prove that liar wrong (and deceiving) your raison d'etre. Unless, of course, you can commit murder AND get away with it. Then proceed with murder. But since most crimes are not perfect (much to our collective dismay), it is definitely easier to rise above such lies.
hey....its not mean....if someone mistreats me...i cannot rest before i get my revenge... or i just beat the person up lol
I think you guys need to read his premise first. Everything that I value, which probably include my family and friends. If someone makes me lose these kind of stuff, I'll make sure his/her life would be living hell. I believe in karma and what comes around goes around.
