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Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by asin777, Sep 11, 2007.

  1. asin777

    asin777 Member

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    Hi my first post. I'm curious how would i make a long distance relationship work? My relationship had just became long distance, we live in two different continent. we both love each other a lot, and yet we can't be together. We are now about to break up, because we don't see a future together. i'm so sadden by it. Any advice?
     
  2. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Maybe meet one last time somewhere to say farewell? Then close this chapter in life and move on.
     
  3. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Well...is it his choice or urs?
    And how far away are u guys exactly?
    How long have u guys been together?
    and how old are u guys?
    These things play an important role...

    If its his choice theres not much u can do about it i guess...
     
  4. word wind.

    that would be a good ending.
     
  5. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    work out and take some major steroids, then pull the continents together so you can be closer.

    or you know, accept reality and understand that there is no chance of a future if you are that far apart. break up quick, mope and drink lots of alcohol, and then get back on the dating scene.

    it will save you lots of time and heartache. long distance relationships never work.
     
  6. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    never say never....!!!
     
  7. take it back to how it was before the continents shifted a few million years ago. lmao.

    speaking of which, im acquainted with this girl who stated on facebook that her bf, ex-bfs are all on different continents. thats a lie right?
     
  8. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    How many bfs she had? -unsure Guess we can call her an international lova.
     
  9. asin777

    asin777 Member

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    Is a decision that we both made, because we don't see a way to make it work, she 22 i'm 26. she still got growing up to do, we been together 4 months, she and i click so well personality wise, is rare to meet someone that you can really get along.
     
  10. if you really dont want to lose the connection, lose a person who you really get along with, why not become really good friends instead?

    i know many couples who became best friends and close friends..
     
  11. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    Jane Bond, international slut of mystery -pirate
     
  12. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    @asin777 How did both of you meet?
     
  13. i vould like to meet zis... Jane Bond.
     
  14. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    >.<
    oops i thought u were a girl dhiem...solly....>.<

    Well...if u BOTH dont think its gonna work...then move on...
    if u BOTH cant let eachother go...i truly believe it can work....but it takes two ppl of course....

    Seriously...i know ppl who had a long distance relationship and got married afterwards...
    Of course someone has to make the sacrifice to move to the other place...
    It really depends on u guys....

    (i know all the guys are gonna disagree with me >.<)
     
  15. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    I'm interested on how you met too. And how far are you really from her in terms of distance.
     
  16. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    What if she's working in a very international job, flying everywhere, never stay too long at the same place etc? Or if you work in a company with lots of different nationalities can lead to an intercontinental relationship on the long term?
     
  17. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    not to sound like a pooper but long distance really doesn't work...it'll almost be like not having a relationship
     
  18. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    Someone will have to sacrifice and move to the other person's city.

    I had a friend who moved to HK from NY to be with his GF.
     
  19. no no, i agree with that. maybe ive been watching too many k movies.
     
  20. asin777

    asin777 Member

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    @dann how can i be friends when we are bfriend and gfriend?