Old friend, new love?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by koogepanini, Sep 11, 2007.

  1. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    Out of curiosity, how many of you think that two people who have been friends for a very long time (like 8-10 yrs) could somehow fall in love and be together?



    Personally, I don't think so. I'd say if you were going to go out then you would have a long time ago. And besides by that time, you probably know too many faults in that person already.
     
  2. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    I think it can happen...anything can happen between a guy and a girl.... (AS LONG AS THEIR NOT FAMILY)
    i think the best person to have a relationship with is someone u've known for a long time because u already know eachother's habits ...so i see the thing u c as disadvantage as advantage i guess...
     
  3. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    My parents before they got married, worked together in the same office for 10 yrs. Afterwards, they fell in love, dated and voila, im the end product. So yes, it is indeed possible.

    Love cannot be defined as it works mysteriously.
     
  4. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    -blush2 how sweet windy lol....
     
  5. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    but it could be that you guys are close that it's almost like family....then it'll be weird i think..like i can't imagine going out with someone who i think as a brother
     
  6. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    Some childhood friends become lovers when they get older. So yes it is possible.
     
  7. sounds like this other korean movie.... the name escapes me...
     
  8. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    well...ive got some friends who i dont THINK i will ever date....because their just not my type...
    but...sometimes things change....=/

    @dann hahaha dont all k drama sound like this?
     
  9. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Weird now, but when it hits you, you will find it sweet -innocent
     
  10. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    if that ever happens to me i will sure start a new thread...doubtful
     
  11. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    ^ are you afraid that might happen?
     
  12. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    you mean like how you guys would trip and he would fall on and accidentally kiss you on your lips.....lol
     
  13. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    not really...i've got loads of childhood guys friends who i don't think i'll go out with...
    whether they might like me...who knows lol?
     
  14. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata


    Key word being "think"... being in love is not something you can technically "think" about cuz you are "feeling" it...:)
     
  15. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    it's defintely possible. even if you know their flaws, they obviously are good people if you've been friends for so long. after being with someone so long, any kind of feelings could develop

    aw how sweet -^_^
     
  16. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    I think before I feel...
     
  17. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    old friends, new lovers is possible.
    i'm currently talking to this girl i knew for about 7 years now. haven't seen her in like 4 years and now were in a little bit more of a friendship relationship
     
  18. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Lol....that shit happens a lot...
    lotsa things can play a role...better timing, maybe she become a bit better looking, maybe u did....u never know
     
  19. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    yea true. she had a bf back then and i had a gf at the same time also
     
  20. for me this will never happen... coz by that time my feelings for this person would b all practical... he'll b someone i get along with or someone i can even live with... n if i was to have a relationship with this person there would b no passion there at all... which mite work out... coz i wouldn't b feeling empty when the passion dies coz there's none to begin with... i guess it's like the concept of arranged marriage