Mean? You haven't seen mean just yet -devil IMO, if you believe in Karma, you will just ignore whatever happened and get on with your life, then hope for the best (or justice). Consciously making someone else's life a living hell is NOT believing in Karma NOR "what goes around comes around"... And really, if you spend your life seeking revenge, you are sinking to the level to the liar and wasting more time of your life on such lowly being(s)...
My value is that love is a reciprocal thing: while I can love someone who doesn't necessary love me, I will NEVER sink so low to waste my precious time on anyone who mistreat me, be it family or friends (in fact, the fair-weathered friends are worse than your arch-enemy, because they abandon you when you most depend on them) So yeah, I understand the premise well. Just that I can be quite... violent in my reaction. -mellow
Come now, I did reply to it, didn't I??? Or at least now that I have a grasp of my articulate self I did, only it's kind of late... -sweat
Do all of the above lol. Make him regret wat he has done to you if he made you have that feeling,,, and then forgive him after... so like dont hate him anymore for wat he has done cuz u have returned the favour... If it makes you feel uneasy then you shud jst replace the word revenge with justice MuHahAHa using tht word shud b slightly easier on the conscience...
It's not quite a matter of conscience (to me at least, because it is lacking in me perhaps? -huh) but more like, this person already wasted so much of your life, why invest more time on this person? Afterall, revenge takes effort, and unless you get high from revenge, it's a wasted effort (and various other resources)
Lol i guess im the opposite from you... if sum1 made me miserable i'd take satisfaction in making them pay for their misdeeds... Leaving them alone would just mean they got wat they wanted. Plus if u leave them alone they can keep on doing it to you... i understand tht the ppl who know this guy would still noe tht hes a great guy but if sum1 damages ur reputation and shit then you have to work really hard to show to sum1 u just met tht your a decent fellow... which is really quite annoying
REVENGE. thats what i'll go for. first i'll confront them and then beat them up and say "just because ur doing this and i haven't done anything about it doesn't mean i'm a bitch." beat them up and say who's the bitch now huh???
Nah, go fo the long term damage like getting them fired from their jobs or damage their reputation (as they've done the same to you, but instead of spreading lies, you'll let everyone know the treacherous character/behaviour of this person>>>means you do have to gather evidence though) Make them regret it for life, make them crawling on their feet and begging for mercy. -pirate
kill him/her. then kill his/her lover, his/her parents, sister, brother. then u find nothing to do, and meaningless. to kill the bored, find another victims, and they are his/her friends, and everyone relative to him/her. until u die, then that's the purpose of your life.
^that's more like a psychopath serial killer. besides, the police would catch you in a heartbeat seeing as the only relation between all these people is.. well, you. haha. i concur. many times hate is one-way. the hater gets all angry (and sometimes this extra stress results in health problems) and focuses all his energy on the one misdeed committed by the hated. meanwhile, the hated does not know and does not care that the hater hates. so, don't waste your energy and possibly sacrifice your health for this.
Oh, I annoy them by living a better life. -cool There's nothing noble about it, leaving it behind is like... Saving yourself the trouble of dealing with lice. And depending on where on Earth you are, murder can be prosecuted for anywhere between 5 years to life to death sentence. -rolleyes If you HAVE to seek revenge by killing, that's a bad order. You should kill everyone around the person you hate BEFORE you kill said person. In which case, you may even get away if you can make the scene of crime like a suicide scene... -devil I know, I won't let my precious brain cells die over trivial matters such as haters. -rockon
