well i'm one of those people, i'm quiet but it because i dun wanna talk, my mouth doesn't seem to be moving as fast as my thought so i end up saying stupid things therefore i keep my mouth shut most of the time just because they are quiet doesn't mean they are shy i think, well i guess it is depend on certain people, i'm quiet because i just dun feel like talking
I mean people who you see hardly participate in group conversations.. but i see they do talk with one on one convo..
hmm hard to tell they prolly like to relax a bit, nothin miuch to talk about, or just being shy i think they also want to avoid some cconversation because something happened to them
It is one thing to be quiet and not joining in the conversation, but quite another to kill every single topic which comes up... I can deal with quiet/shy peeps, but serial topic killers just get on my nerves the wrong way... Anyways, I guess some are quiet because they are not comfortable talking about a certain topic, if you have the right topic they will definitely be more talkative... I think.
Not all quiet people are shy, think that some just don't feel like to talk in certain groups (incl. myself) or about certain topics. Sometimes it's better to keep quiet if you can't say anything useful/interesting, 'coz if you force yourself to you might end up saying something stupid hurting others.
i'm quiet...and a bit shy too... i j ust started college and i dont really know anyone in my classes so i just stay quiet and dont say nufin...probaly cos i feel uncomfortable and i dont really like speaking out loud to the class..makes me all self conscious...=s
Same here. After about 2-3 wks, then i dont have problems tho since im getting used to the teachers and would have made some friends by then.
i suppose i just need to get a hang of things then... but i will avioid having to speak out loud in front class....
i have a friend that quiet a lot. he doesn't seem shy at all. we call him the Ninja cause he'll pop out of no where and vanish into thin air.
if they are quiet and shy, then after while they will get boring cuz you can't hold a nice convo with them...
A few of my good friends are like that... When we are in a small group their very silly and talkative... and when were in a bigger crowd their just quiet... My friends are not shy....when i ask them why their so quiet they just say they prefer to listen =/ or they just talk to eachother =/ They say they simply dont have anything to say...
They feel more comfortable doin their usual things with their own mates that they hang around a lot oftenly...hmmm - about quiet types, I guess i was pretty quiet before, but just got the hang of talkin 2 ppl that i dnt usually chat 2...so yea, anyone can grow / mature out of that...they just need some self-esteem in themselves i gues...as for speakin in public, normally i need to practice to make it perfect, unlike those who can speak openly and confidently of themselves...
