i usually will think that quiet people are shy. i rather think they are shy then thinking they have an attitude problems.
some people just don't have anything to say in the conversation, but it doesn't mean they're shy really? I'm usually not quiet the first few days/weeks, because that's when I start to make friends. I find that if you start talking to people a few days/weeks later, it's kind of weird because I always think they would think "why are you doing it now?" maybe they just don't want to start a convo, but they might actually be comfortable if someone else starts it
hehe. my natural character is one that is generally more shy but i've had people ask me why i'm so quiet and others ask me to keep my voice down. so i don't think anyone is ever entirely quiet? there must be one moment where they are not.
You know some quiet people wants someone to actually talk to them, but they don't want to say it out and most of the time they can't think of anything to say to start a conversation
depends for me , you can be the hottest girl around but i might not speak to you because ur personality is crappy so therefore i have nothing to say. If you're cool and easy going then sure i'd speak with ya. Sometimes there's just nothing in common to speak about.. Other times i prefer to listen and get a feel for people and their personality. I'm certainly not the type who will not speak at all. There are shy people who no matter what won't speak not unless ur really close to them. i believe this to be true , i used to be like that but realized it'll get me nowhere. You'd be suprised how many people open up if you just talk to them.
Is true...I'm always like that... <_<, well ever since I started uni... also maybe me been shy contributes to that as well lol
even if someone else starts the convo, they aint got much to say. I've also noticed that these kind of people are like less creative when answering questions and making funny comments and stuff.... that is soooo not true in my opinion
im a very quite person, when im in a group i usually speak when i have to but besides that i don't talk much. one thing about quite people is we hear very well, and we never forget, for this reason people are always surprised by what we know about them because they dont realise they do 90% of the talking and we do all the listening, personally im not quite because i am shy, im quite because im quite........ also dont mess with the quite people, if u push them and make them mad youll be sorry in most cases, people make the mistake of confusing weakness and quietness. BUT there are times when i go crazy and im the loudest person in the group and the one having to crack all the jokes but thats not often as i find peace in listening rather than talking all the time. i cant speak for the timid/shy/insecure quite types though.
agreed.... for some reason i get along with quiet/shy people quite well too... must be because i talk sooo much and theres a good balance i guess....dunno
hahahahaha...no...they usually become a bit more open and loosen up a little... and act a bit crazy like i do lol cuz i got friends who are like me...(errr quite active) and sometimes theres just too much energy haha
LOL, I am only extroverted at times... like now -devil There are times I just CBA to talk to retards in RL...
I dont know, funny thing is that when im quiet in class for the first few wks, ppl tend to wonder about me, and they would eventually come up and talk. K, now you can talk to me, stop being shy So true, couldnt have said it better. Lets host an extroverted contest for Dann and Hiake. Winner gets to be named the PA talker.
