Quiet people

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by sweetbery, Sep 12, 2007.

  1. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    am i supposed to feel hurt now orrr whut?
    as far as i know ur the one whos saying weird things and insulting everyone on a regular base here...
    weirdo
     
  2. now now children. less hatin more lovin.

    :D
     
  3. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata


    Plenty. :D
     
  4. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    No hard feelings and no....i aint hating...im just telling him the way i feel..=)
     
  5. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member


    Defense and anger is the first sign of guilt. No offense, just stating it as it is. Refer to Maslow's theory :)
     
  6. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    I've been a chatterbox since primary school too!!! It was written in more than one of my report card that I am inquisitive but talk too much. During high school, I went into some kind of recess and hide under some rock -tongue2

    Now my extrovert side is back with a vengence -devil
     
  7. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    like i said before and youve quoted what i said....no hating....im just someone who speaks her mind up...
    u might think im angry..but u havent seen me angry yet -devil-devil-devil-devil
     
  8. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Hmmm... Maslow's most known theory is for his hierarchy of needs and not for his psychological theories.
     
  9. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    u got it bub. need for attention dude...the 2nd stage after basic need like food and water...it is also in sigmund freund...

    wow. u good-surr
     
  10. Flames

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    Let me guess...when you're angry you're gonna tie the guy up and start whipping him?-unsure
     
  11. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    You catching up fast young one. ;)
     
  12. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    nah...sorry not into that kinda shiet....
     
  13. chickenutbread

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    exactly.

    you got the wrong person; look for hiake :p

    the other reason (like someone already said) is that you just don't click. i've known some people for almost 5 years but when they give me a ride or i'm completely alone with them there's just this silence. it's not really awkward but just a "i don't really have or can think of anything to say to you" silence.
     
  14. kxie

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    i think they're just shy, and once they know u theyll open up
     
  15. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Who? Me? -huh

    I've met people who remain extremely quiet even after I've known them for a few years... But I guess relative to me, most people are quiet, so there... -unsure I personally find the silence (in a car or what not) slightly awkward, I guess I just like it better when there's conversation.
     
  16. CuTeBuBleBeAr

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    Some quiet people are nice and some are shyy .. when you talk to them i guess they will talk back to you. i think quiet people want people to come up to them and talk to them, but they don't say i guess. Maybe they like thinking more. i don't think anything is wrong with them
     
  17. chickenutbread

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    wasn't it you with the whipping? -huh hehe. or maybe i've got it wrong and it's your twin who specializes in this field. :p

    yeah.. i suppose there are some people who i'm comfortable with just being silent but there are other people who i'd feel awkward around as well but sometimes there just isn't anything to say.. so. i don't know?>.< and then you have the one person who's quiet and totally fine with the silence but the other passenger is squirmy because he feels awkward and doesn't know what to say but wants to speak. heh. i think it's like that a lot of times for me (silent) and the other passenger. but on the other hand, i don't like talking just for the sake of talking. it gives me a sense of "i'm talking (not actually caring about you or what you say) just to make me feel better about this awkwardness". so i'd rather take the silence any day.
     
  18. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    there is a little difference between quiet ppl and shy ones. those who are shy usually appear less confident or uncomfortable in the presence of an unfamiliar group. best is to approach them in small group environment when he/she is with at least a fren ard, so there is less awkwardness.

    for quiet ppl, they are just quiet. and when prompted, can reply with confidence and ease.

    regardless of which, they might have great ideas/thoughts so dun be afraid to approach them just cos there is difficulty communicating.
     
  19. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    I think I am better at bashing and slashing... Though I am sure my reputation precedes me -unsure
     
  20. jonathan_kkc

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    i think shy ppl are quiet but quiet ppl might not be shy. They just have nothign to say.