it's simple, girls are attracted to assholes. maybe if you become a bigger asshole to go along with your "nice" qualities at times. she'll definitely leave him for you. other reasons would be that she is still attached because they may have been going out for awhile or maybe she's afraid that the dude will kill her and YOU if he finds out about your relationship or leaving him for you. because i know i WOULD! but if i were you, i'd just keep it up with the affair and probably leave emotions out of it until she really decides to leave him. she can be your f*k buddy.
Wow lie about love? That's hard. I guess that's what I need to do. I ain't putting anymore emotion into this. It's not going anywhere She did tell me yesterday she had a dream where her bf was about to literally murder her when the guy found the affair.
just leave her... in the end.. both you and her are the villians in here, going beyhind the back of the BF
First of all, those things that you just listed there might not be what girls are looking for in guys. 1) He isn't hot... uhm ok? So you're saying, girls go for ONLY hot guys? 2) He isn't romantic... That's not a quality, but more of a bonus to someone's personality. 3) Terrible in bed... She must be pretty shallow to tell you this. 4) He's not rich - This is my favorite one. Go watch some chick flick like Sweet Home Alabama. Come back and tell me why the rich guy doesn't get the girl. 5) He has the worst personality... - Is this coming from you? Or from his girl? If it's from you, then your opinion does not count at all. If it's from the girl, then it's a whole other story.
yeah everything up there is totally true .. I wouldn't even have thought of that if ck hadn't said it. but yeah all those things that you listed are all superficial, except for the personality part, assuming that is coming from her. and think about it, there's obviously something about him that she likes better than you, (no offense) ... because she's with him and not you ...
looks like he's her "comfort zone"... she so used to being around him she doesn't know how to leave... u'll need to get her out of ther "comfort zone"... maybe try to take her on a holiday... somewhere far away for a few weeks so she wan't b able to speak with her bf during that time n she can get used to not having him around n realise how much happier she can b...
dood...dont listent to girls meng...u have to use psychology... Just split, dont talk to her for a month or so...dont tell her why u stop seeing her... hurt her... if she comes ur way, go the other way...she will be wondering why u r leaving and chase after you...trust me on this...then u tell her
who's the girl here?? u or me?? i'm just letting u wot a girl is feeling... i was with someone that treated me like crap, not good looking, not romantic n not rich n yet i still didn't leave him... until he had a fling with someone else n didn't bother to contact me for a month... i didn't speak a word to him during that time on the phone or msn... i went shopping with my chick friends... i went to the movies with my group like how i used to before i dated that guy... n i realise i'm so much better of without him... n last week i tried to delete some of my old sms from that guy... i only went as far as 10 sms coz it was way too painful reading them again...
that's evil ... not that what they're doing right now isn't evil .. but if a guy did that to me, I'd just be like "fine I guess I won't be seeing you anymore" but I guess this depends on how much she likes him ...
hey chickie dee...he ain't doing himself any favours sticking around...he is just doing hersomethin... might as well use it to his advantage...look for someone else in the mean time...
well yeah I don't think they have a very good relationship now anyways. but if he's going to do that, then leave her for good, and not see what happens and take her back in case he doesn't find anyone else
dun b too hard on the guy... he's just angry coz the woman he loves is sleeping with and being emotionally tortured by someone he thinks is worthless n there seems to b nothing he can do abt it...
u know she's not the only out there... every girl once thought they'd give their virginity to their husband on their wedding night... but that's not how reality works...
i dunno if i could wait past marriage to have sex with a girl... i mean you wouldnt buy a car without test driving it first... it might look good from the outside, but when u get in you might find out its just a lemon
Hey...so what if a girl sucks in bed...if ur any good....u might be able to teach her how to be a good bedpartner?
