Being Hooked up.

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Wukung, Sep 30, 2007.

  1. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    i would say don't give her the present. if u wanted to give her something i would say go buy some flowers or something.
    i think paying for dinner is a good gesture. i always offer to pay for the bill when i go out on dates. the check always gets split into two, as in ripped, but i always win.
     
  2. its not REALLY blind date... since he knows how she looks like.. also he knows how she is :p
     
  3. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    good luck on ya date...
    just go with the flow i say...if u both feel the connection then exchange numbers etc...
    seeing each other once a week isnt a problem cos if u both like each other then it wouldnt matter..at least u can text or call each other...
     
  4. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    haha.. you never know.. if the gal pops up with a gift.. and the guy doesn't have one in return.. hmm..
     
  5. wheezo

    wheezo Well-Known Member

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    your face is cheap! =) nah girls aren't really rich, they just THINK they're rich with all their credit cards!
    but yeah, i did say i pay for the food... -.- i don't like paying for people I DON'T KNOW and people I DON'T LIKE so it depends on the person I'm with. i don't think i'm cheap, i just use my money wisely.
     
  6. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Hold on to the bear first, offer her a drink and see how it goes. A gift on the first blind date might prove too overwhelming on her.
     
  7. Wukung

    Wukung Well-Known Member

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    oh wow thanks for the warning
    ill definitaly put that in for consideration
     
  8. Wukung

    Wukung Well-Known Member

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    OMG my friend told her i bought her a bear, i have no choice now
     
  9. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    dont need to rush into things, just let everything takes its course when you guys meet, and if something clicks then get her number
     
  10. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    btw what is your age wukung?
    just wondering
     
  11. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Lol, dont worry about it. Just tell her you bought it as a meeting gift.
     
  12. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    aw well you can just give it to her and be like "I wanted to get you something but I didn't know what, so I got you a bear" or something along those lines. I think if I were her, I'd think that'd be cute ...
     
  13. Wukung

    Wukung Well-Known Member

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    Recap
    im 18
    my first hooked up date
    confused
    need advice!
     
  14. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    well since your friend told her you were gonna get a bear, maybe you can surprise her with something else, something better that she won't expect?

    and 18, yeah you should be fine, its just that i read your other thread about your confession and thought you were at least 20.

    Just a tip about this hooking up thing, it might be a bit awkward since you 2 haven't met before but are already going out on a date. So maybe try to find out as much info about her as you can and when you do meet her, at least it will make her feel more comfortable when talking because you know what to say.
     
  15. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    a bear isnt so bad, atleast ur not giving her a box of condoms or some fur lined hand cuffs lol, if i went on one of these and really wasnt actually interested in the girl id definitely do sometihng like that, it would be so funny
     
  16. Wukung

    Wukung Well-Known Member

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    haha its confirmed
    we both like to watch korean drama
    were both chinese and speak cantonese
    so i dont think there will be a communication problem
     
  17. wheezo

    wheezo Well-Known Member

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    yea... and then she'd be butt ugly and REALLY INTERESTED IN YOU! haha... she'll wink at the present.


    wukung, well i like korean movies/drama and i speak cantonese... we'd get along just fine. haha jk but yeah that's a good start i guess.
     
  18. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Errr....WOW! Errr....u guys sound like ur meant to be!
    there are only like a millions of other girls who like drama's and speak canto....
    like me and all of my friends...oh btw my aunties and mother too...
    im not trying to be mean...butta....dont get too excited yet....
    or else u can get disappointed

    -flow
     
  19. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    Thats like 90% of the population of Hong Kong.................
     
  20. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    hahaha so true