im here to confess something... no one knows but its about time to let it out i dated this girl 3 years ago Her name was katie, we went out and to her house alot We would even be on the phone with her while she watches Sex and the City even though i hate it one day we were with a group of friends and she asked me if i loved her publicaly... i must of hesistated and did not answer later on that night she asked me again i was not sure if i did or not... i just didnt answer... we didnt talk and 3 years later i see her with her pretty smile and she gives me a hug it really got me thinking did i love that girl-unsure
i know i kind of ended out relatioship in a Mean i guess you could say way i know she liked me now it bugs me how i could do tha to her i feel like an ass
yeah i guess it was better that you did leave her though, since you didn't love her. Otherwise it might have been worst. It's good that you're one of them guys that don't say "I love you" really easily, shows that love is something serious to you. Well just wondering, do you regret that you left her? or are you just writing this post up because you feel bad about it all?
lol dann must be a little desperate ... -tongue2 well you didn't just stay silent right ... I mean your conversation had to end somehow .. but it's better that you didn't lie, and there'll be someone someday that you can just say it to, without her having to ask you
dun b too hard on urself... u didn't love her then... n u can't force one to love another... she'll undersand...
Why let it bother you now unless you have feelings for her? Nonetheless, you could have told her that you didnt feel romantically attracted instead of not answering.
^i think that would have been worse? in public? maybe if you keep quiet you can act like you didn't hear or surprise her with a gift or poem later to make up for the lack of words earlier well, i agree with all the people above me who said that it's good you don't casually throw around the words "i love you" because girls like me hate that
yea i find it annoying that girls ask that ....especially very early on in a relationship... the reason your going out is not cuz u love them..its cuz u like them and u wanan see if u would love them...yet if u dont answer...or say no....ure like.,..pretty much fked...so u have to lie...or lie to yourself.
Didin't you see the other thread? Someone said saying "I Love you" gets sex! kidding lol Did you ask her back or did she say it you already?
