Confessions of past love

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Wukung, Oct 1, 2007.

  1. no... saying "i love u" is expressing ur love to another... "will u marry me?" is wot u say when ur ready for marriage...
     
  2. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    yeah i agree with you man. i mean hell i've even had a girl that i was just seeing say "bye, love you" to me on the phone, we weren't even going out hah, so all i said was "ok bye".

    And lying will just make it worst, thats why i think its really important to make your position clear about it from the start. If you're just seeing if things work out, then tell them that theres a chance that you might not actually love them like you thought you will. But yeah thats just hard as well
     
  3. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    Not answering is very bad could have at least said something along the line of "No I don't right now, but I'm sure I will in the future"
     
  4. hahaha yeah... or maybe something like "errrr.... i like u a lot... but love is a very strong word" anything's better than dead air...
     
  5. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Better end it early than late.

    Surprising her with a poem would make her more attracted to him, so definitely a nono since he doesnt want her in that :p
     
  6. MissCheekS

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    how do u say i love you to someone when ur not in a relationship...
    i mean u can like someone a lot...and u can love him/her in a certain way....but....i dunno its different...
    its more like...liking somebody a whole lot...like fans love their idol?

    U c....hence why Im never going to be the one to say I love u first....
    I guess my pride wont let me...Even if I'd love a guy...ima wait until he says it first...
    Saying I love u to a guy first...it might scare him away



    Hahaha...thats exactly what i thought
     
  7. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    haha not really. I wouldn't assume a guy wants to marry me just because he says "I love you"
     
  8. Kate204

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    Sometimes, people don't know what they have until its gone. Maybe your experiencing that. But hearing you say that you were not sure if you loved her, maybe you were right. If you love someone, you would know instantly because if you didn't, your probably not in love.
     
  9. shw

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    kate 204 =katie?
    anyway,

    you should have said: I love you if you love me.
     
  10. MissCheekS

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    one should not use the word love if there is no love involved
     
  11. shw

    shw Well-Known Member

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    i xxxx you if you xxxx me?
     
  12. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    hahaha...ok....hmmm...i have lack of creativity...why dont u gimme a clue here shw

    this aint no wheel of fortune btw haha
     
  13. shw

    shw Well-Known Member

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    haha i dont know . not good in puzzles. :D

    btw just came back from hc. en ik zag botsautos en een reuzenrad.
     
  14. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    In Nijmegen???
    Whoahhh....grote kermissss <3....im missin out im missin out!!
     
  15. shw

    shw Well-Known Member

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    jammer hoor, als je hier was had ik je getrakteerd op een ritje in het rad.
     
  16. MissCheekS

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    puehehhee....cheap...u better shout me dinner or something else expensive
     
  17. shw

    shw Well-Known Member

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    Een gegeven paard mag men niet in de bek kijken.

    Geef ze een vinger en ze nemen de hele hand.

    Het is niet zo dat ik dat niet over heb maar

    Kinderen die vragen worden overgeslagen.
     
  18. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    OMGGGG!?
    WTH?
    heb je dat ff snel opgezocht ofzooo...damnnn....hahaha...ga slape ofzo men....
     
  19. shw

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    hahhaa !
     
  20. MissCheekS

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    hey kmeen het serious he....damn...tis echt laat/vroeg in NL hahaha
    insomnia?