hey guys,, i am in a terrible relationship now... i mean.. i think i am pretty fucked up now here is what happened i met this girl in my school and we are classmate then..we started to date and everything went fine... after a few days...i confess to her...and on the next day after i confess,we were together.. everything was fine after today... i pick her up as usual...from her working place ... then she suddenly wanted to go to the seaside... so i thought she want to spent a romantic night with me or sth but .... when we first arrive there we were juz chating and bullshit... but later the problem arrived.. she told me about her friend telling her about the her EX bf ... then she told me that she still like that guy... and she wanted to break up..and she said she need some time.. she think we are developing to fast... i tried everything to keep her and i mean everything... but in the end...i still cannot keep her we spent like 2-3 hours juz hugging each other and crying and whatever... but i am not sure... i realli want to know does she realli like me? i realli don't know what to do now i am so lost and blah=.= anyone got any idea what should i do?
...it's really not the end of the world dude! o_0 Just give her a break and make up her mind because it has no use to keep going with you if she still loves her ex but if or when she does realize it's better not to continue with her ex she'll come back to you. (and there are more girls on this planet, relax)
Yeah don't try to push her into staying with you as it will problably make it harder for her to decide, also it makes you look desperate. Truthfully i think maybe you guys rushed into things too quickly. Did she only break up with her ex recently?
i know that in your situation i would be pretty devastated too. but its not a reason to ruin your normal life, cuz those things, if you really think about it, will bring you down.. and hard.. thru time, you will learn to get over her, so that way, it doesnt become an obstacle.. on a side note, "developing too fast" is one of those bs i refuse to believe... thats what everyone says when they want to break up..
something similar happened to my friend! she was with him for like 2 days and he said that he still had feelings for his old girl and he left her! that kind of girl/guy is just not worth it! move on!!!
If she can go out with you but still think about her EX, question is Is she really worth your effort to make her stay by your side? Wake up man!!!!!!!!!1
aww! well you shouldn't let her telling you this make you so sad if she started liking her ex again, maybe you guys just weren't meant to be. it's wrong of her to just leave you anyways. don't worry, things'll get better, and you'll find someone that likes you, and only you I hope you feel better. here's a little -hug
aww...poor u..was she the girl u asked out in class? u should probably just let her go sort out her own feelings first in the mean time u should think about whether you should let her go or wait for her but hope you feel better soon =]
gosh.. i tot u were really dying.. anyway.. my suggestion, like most others here, is to give her time. be cool abt it. and if it doesn't work out, move on.
It hurts but you gotta let her have her space and time to mend on her previous relationship. Who knows, maybe once she's thru with her feelings with her ex, she might turn to you. Dont impose on her since it might make her want you for the wrong reason such as a buoy. In the meantime, sit back and chill.
guys...i can't even win her EX her ex broke up with her 6 years ago.. and after that..they never talk or met or whatever.. i feel like i am so useless...
well...theres not much u CAN do at this stage.... if she still likes her ex bf...then i think u better leave her alone even if she decides to stay with u while she likes her ex... whats the good in that? Hmmm.....and yeah is this the girl u went to that course to and posted about b4???
dont say that...just cos u cant win her bk atm doesnt mean ur useless....-hug even if u dont go with her in the end...just remember that there's plenty of other fish in the sea...
nah this girl i met her from school and things are going realli great and smooth in the beginning...until now.. at first ..i was like um...she is not realli pretty..and i am like we can be friends or blah>thats in my mind in the beginning but then.....as i said everything was smooth things started during a dinner... we are studying in the night school..so we can skip class if we want.. and on that day we are having physics...(the most boring lesson=3=) so we decided to skip it and have dinner and suddenly one of her friend got sth to do so only me and her went for dinner.... after that night we started dating...and very quickly we were together she said she juz need a little time...but i reali don't know what should i do...
she is kind of special... i have never hug one of my ex that long..and i still remember that strong feeling i have...
after 6 years.... thats a long time ago..... you just have ask her to make her choice.... if she chooses you... she has to forget him... if not... you should forget her... coz u cant do anything on it...
oh ok er...so shes ugly? oh well....who cares u seem to really like her... what can u do? nothing.... dont push her....u will only give her more pressure...now tell me...does her ex want her back too or what? of yes, im sorry but i think u will lose since she seems to like her ex quite a lot and has even mentionin breakin up with u -ohmy
