do you pretend to like your gifts?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Oct 1, 2007.

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Do you tell people if you dont like the gift they give you

  1. honest is a prevention of future bad gifts

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  2. I suck it up and smile like hell

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  1. hahahaha... we're talking abt not so close fds...

    he doesn't wanna get those "not so close" fds things they dun like n dun wanna spend too much on the things they like... so yeah... i say cash works for me -bigsmile
     
  2. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    omg! i just got a gift and i have like 9 days to return it and its in HK!! this sux

    its a 30" necklace .925 silver..but the style is really WEIRD =(
     
  3. that can b ur next bday gift to someone else -bigsmile
     
  4. turbobenx

    turbobenx .........

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    depends.... if the gifts are good ill be happy, if the gifts aint as hot, ill fake it. I meant, i still gotta thank them for giving me a gift, regardless of wat it is.
     
  5. AbZoNyX

    AbZoNyX Well-Known Member

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    I very rarely get any gifts so I don't have to pretend.
     
  6. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    I never told anyone I don't like their gifts... Just suck it up and smile :p
    But if that person's REALLY close to me.. like my bf, then he probably should know what i would like and not like.
     
  7. Kaitou_Kid

    Kaitou_Kid Well-Known Member

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    its really offensive since its all about the thought!
     
  8. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    I pretend to like it as it's the idea that counts and sometimes I don't even expect a great gift.
     
  9. well, i dont recieve gifts that often but when i do, im usually surprise and well i guess i like it and its the thought that counts not the value of the present itself.
     
  10. tomatoman

    tomatoman Well-Known Member

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    its not the present...Its the thoughts tat count.....Old but true
     
  11. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    yeah i pretend i like it when i get something stupid...
    because...
    i do like it becoz the other bought it for ME...
    it's just the thought that is most important ^^
    too bad it's not nice..
    but i wont say anything about that
     
  12. LDRCHL

    LDRCHL Active Member

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    haha..always smile...but give hints that u might dont use the present hehe
     
  13. innuyashango

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    i seldom get any gifts so theres actually nothing to pretend about. i feel that its the thought that counts. whether i like the gift or not is another matter. . .
     
  14. megazone23

    megazone23 Well-Known Member

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    No one is ever obliged to give a gift during any occasions. People give because they want to. It's the thought that they remembered it's your birthday or whatever occasion that counts. I'm happy with every gift that I get, whether big or small. Not to say that every gift is useful or nice (I've had my fair share of not-so-useful gifts) but a gift is a gift and it's the thought that counts. Well, I think so anyway.
     
  15. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member


    i dont agree at all
    i DO give many gifts because of obligation

    i feel obligated to get souviers from my trips for friends i dont want to, but request it
    I feel obligated to GIVE presents to the people who get me presents, because they expect it (I even got yelled at once for not getting them the right present) Damn people, yes I hate it, but i still do it
    in high school i felt obligated to get a present for THIS person, if i gave a present to THAT person (because i wanted to)

    of course most of the gifts i give out aren't because of these reasons, but they do pop up
     
  16. oceanocean

    oceanocean Well-Known Member

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    i always have to pretend........ how can u be grateful for a pickle ornament or a wind chime...... especially a wind chime for a chinese person.......it's gonna be like a ghost fiesta at my house
     
  17. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    i will be happy with any gift no matter what because i believe the fact that they've even thought of you and went out to buy something just to give to you is a brillant gesture in itself. i believe them giving you the gift is probably worth more than the gift itself.
     
  18. unclelooi

    unclelooi Well-Known Member

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    no matter good or bad i will accept as someone said: Giving gifts and receiving gifts is not about the item, its all about the fact that you remembered the occasion