How do you deal with it when your bf/gf has short temper? They just blow up in front of you because of some thing simple and not worth arguing over....what do you do ?-rockon
haha rock on well I've never experienced this but it's not right for ANYONE to take our their anger on someone else. when my sister does it, I just walk away or I tell her that she shouldn't be taking our her anger on me. and then I might help her get through her problem. this one time I was doing this project with a classmate that I kinda liked, and I guess he was having a bad day or something. we made a mistake in one of our posters and he started yelling at me and saying how I shouldn't mess everything up. so I was having a bad day, and I wasn't in the mood for his stupidity. so I started yelling back at him and we got into this big argument. I told him to get out of my face if he didn't want me to slap him. but then he felt sorry and apologized and told me why he was having a bad day ... and yeah we made up -^_^ ^^-offtopic I just felt like sharing -tongue2
i can be short tempered sometimes hehehehe and i dont mind showing it...hehe So dont mess with me.... -evil But the good thing about me being short tempered i'll be ok in a few minutes so my advice to u would be leave ur gf alone for a sec.... I know its a bad At least im not one of those ppl who stays pissed for a few hours or even days over smallstuff Man....i hate those ppl
Destroy them with my superior argument! Or you could just agree with everything they say. Unless they're pissed about some guy/girl or something like that. Then you would just ignore them. But that's only what I do to my friends, never had this same experience in a relationship.
If I know she had a hard time at work/school etc. I would keep quiet till the storm's over but if that's not the case I'll dump that bitch 'cuz I ain't a rug you can stamp on it whenever she wants. Really hate bad tempered persons.
Be an idiot and make things worst, or just ignore them and when they ask you did you listen to them, just say something else.
Haha, I'm the one in the relationship with the short temper. My boyfriend can be really insensitive sometimes and when I get angry at him he just backs off and leaves me alone. I kinda wish he would try to talk things out and try to understand my point of view, but he doesn't like dealing with confrontations. I usually get over it in a day or less. But I'll always remember...
lol i'm short tempered too.. believe me i'll flare up over the smallest things, but if u leave me alone, i'll get over it in pretty quickly...at least until i release all my anger =) But of course I'll remember if my brain decides it's worh remembering, definitely.
it's always worse to argue back... they just wanna take their frustration out on u... if he blows up at me for something i've done i'll either keep quiet n do something silly like getting a DV to record everything n play it in front of him to let him know how rediculous he sounds... or take a snap shot of him n show him how ugly he looks... if he blows up abt something else... then i'll just blow up even more so he'll b too busy trying to calm me down
stay quiet i dunno, i know i get into tantrums, they are VERY rare, but when they happen it's quite scary and i rather not have someone bit back at me so stay quiet and i've done the opposite too when people have tantrums, just let them cool down stay quiet, if they realize they hurt you they will start feeling guilty i end up feeling guilty the next day and go back and apologize
well if its a bf/ gf and u rele can't stand it then just leave the relationship. thats the best advice. though if its just a one-off it doesn't rele matter. its only if it is continuous.
lol if i have short tempered gf, id say stfu and go away. nobody likes to listen to yelling and screaming. thats if the unlikely chance of me getting a short tempered gf come true lol
I am pretty short tempered as well. Over the years my brother has developed this technique to make smart comments that should drive me into a rage but instead gets me to realize I over-reacted and how stupid I was acting. I can't remember an exact example but has been as easy as looking up from whatever he is doing, telling me I am an idiot and going back to what he was doing.
I think i will wait for things to cool down first before talking lo...its hard to talk when one are angry...don't you all think so?
