What does everyone do when they're with their bf/gf? For me, when my gf comes over: - we watch movies/drama together - we play DDR (just for exercise so we're not always sitting around) - we read books (when she has to study for school, I just read beside her) - we just sit and talk Other times: - we go out to eat dinner together every month at some slightly more expensive place, trying out new ethnic foods - we go look around town for places to go like the aquarium, zoo, science world, etc. - we look for other friends to hang out with - we go out and take sticker pictures So what does everyone else do? I'm running out of ideas for places to go / things to do
I need some advice... When we're together... it's most me going to him... and then he's doing anything at home... sleeping, watching tv, household... I just feel like he doesnt spend time on me... really makes me sad.... Today he picked me up from school... when we were at my place.... it just felt like he wanted to go... didnt want to stay for a little while longer... is it me thinking the wrong way? of is it him that shouldnt treat me this way?! =(
@mega everything can be fun as long as u do it with the right person.... i dont mind if its just simple things....hangin out and lay around in a park or beach....listen to music....dancing or watchin tv or planning together for a nice holiday to get away with him...or do something crazy like going skydivin.... really anything would do...as long as u got the right company maybe hes just a boring person...=/... honestly....he sure does sound like one....hmmmz.... do u ever come with fun ideas or stuff u wanna do with him? did u talk to him about it?
it's not that we're not having fun together... but usually... he asks friends to come etc... he says "if i havent said it's just the 2 of us... then our friends are welcome anytime"... but he never plans anything to do together... mostly with others... i dont bother that... they're my friends either... but it's quite normal to have the feeling to be alone and doing something rite? i feel just being second choice... first his friends... then me... :(
what do we do? lol well normally if the weather's nice, after school we'd go for a stroll in the park...lol or when ther's no school, we go out to the cinema and we'd eat afterwards...or before.. um..go arcade lol...no matter how much i try persuade him...he wont play DDR with me lol...but we go play Shooting or racing games together...lol we went feeding the ducks and squirrels one time...that was cute...=) or we just go and explore places we havent been before...
is he a middle child? I dunno, the last guy i was dating I was always the one to call him, to ask him over, to make plans, etc but i think it's cause he's the middle child, so all throughout his life he's use to doing what other want, and never even being asked what he wants therefore now he refuses to make decisions, he never picks resturants or activities but always goes along with what ever i want although on another note me and my ex we use to talk a lot on the phone but when we saw each other we didn't do much mostly just watch tv it got boring, but if it made him happy, why not
just strolling around or sitting around parks and talking...or sitting in front of the harbour can be nice too.
Ok, lets create a section just for Dawn so she can relate her aventures to all of us who are 18+. -^_^
