I think I lost my chance

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by ah_wong201, Oct 18, 2007.

  1. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    ok..... so i'm starting to feel one of my friends that i've known for a while now. we both hang together and my friends and her girl friends say that she is feeling me too. we hang out, we drink, we flirt, and everything. just sunday we went out bowling and i didn't get home till 2am, went to sleep at 3:15am, and had to wake up at 5am to go to work. when i dropped her off she asked me if i was going to sleep. i told her that if i don't then i'll call her. we talked for like an hour.

    yesterday one of my friends left me a commet on my myspace saying when i'm gonna ask her out. he must of left it when i fell asleep. she later calls me and ask if i can delete it. i go on and check and delete it.

    i don't know how she felt but i think maybe embaressed. really childish of my friend though.

    do u guys think i might of lost my chance? we'll be hanging out this weekend and i guess i'll find out.... *sigh*
     
  2. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    a...there should be another chance....if she gives up that easy...is she worth it?
     
  3. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    sounds like ur chances are just beginning...
     
  4. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    i won't really trip if there wasn't a chance. it only all started like 2 weeks ago. i'm just thinking a lot.

    yup... we'll see if its still open
     
  5. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Naw she shouldn't take offence at what your friend said... coz it's not you who said it. Don't worry, your chances are still there.
     
  6. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    hope its not one of those ackward moments when we see eachother........
     
  7. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    That's why you gotta relax and act cool like nothing happened.. Or you cld even joke about your friend makin that 'silly' remark and she'll probably relax as well when you guys can laugh about it.
     
  8. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    I think this is a good chance for you. Plus your friends comment is something you both can just laugh about. That's kind of my situation right now, everyone thinks theres something going on between me and my friend, and keep teasing us etc. We just leave it and find it really funny.

    If you see her this weekend, try and get some alone time with her. Or at least make sure your friends don't bring it up. If her friends are saying shes feeling you too then it should be all good.
     
  9. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Yeah... maybe you could even put it to your advantage by saying something along the lines of telling her that it's time for you to ask her out since ur friend reminded u of it... *cough*
    Well, do that if you are sure she has some feelins for u lol.
     
  10. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    never though about making a joke about it..... yea i think i will do it then. hope she doesn't try to avoid me though....
     
  11. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    well if she likes you too, then maybe now she kinda gets the feeling that you like her too
    that's not a bad thing, I wouldn't shun a guy if his friend did that
     
  12. girls r shy... i wouldn't wanna c a comment like that on the net where everyone can read it... just keep hanging out, drinking n flirting... if she backs off then ur in trouble :p
     
  13. wheezo

    wheezo Well-Known Member

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    you're worrying too much =) just have a good time.
     
  14. lilaznjoker

    lilaznjoker Well-Known Member

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    i agreeeeee
     
  15. ironkain

    ironkain Member

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    Good luck Man !
     
  16. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    well..... i just gotta hope for the best i guess
     
  17. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    haha.. its only a comment.. and you took it off on request so shouldn't be an issue. may the force be with you..
     
  18. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Awww......wongie hahaha...u got love trouble eh :p?

    Like the others said....i dun think u lost ur chance....and yeah...id find it a bit -emb-emb-emb too if i were her
    cuz everyyy one can read ur other friends comment
    maybe shes afraid other friends will tease her about it hehe

    u must be looking forward to the weekenddd.... -sorc !

    Goodluck~
     
  19. chi_man

    chi_man Well-Known Member

    if she really loves you she actually wounldn't mind how your friends think about it.... so there should be another chance for you if she really loves you
     
  20. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    Here is my 2 cents. I think she wanted you to delete the comment on your MySpace account because she doesn't want people to think that you were forced to ask her out. She didn't want to think that you were asking her out just because of that comment.