He's 29 and I'm only 20...

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Yong-Shi, Oct 22, 2007.

  1. Thisdamngood

    Thisdamngood Well-Known Member

    I would mind if I were you. Besides, you haven't gotten to know him very well yet. THere might be things he does that are too mature for you. YOu are 20. The 20 year olds I know are partying and shopping like crazy!!
     
  2. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Perhaps their already in a common field mentally? I mean just because shes a student & hes working fulltime doesnt mean their not....
    If they like each other a lot right now its gonna be hard for both of them to wait until shes graduated....


    i know 30 year old guys who are still into partying and gaming....=/
    I party & shop but it doesnt mean im immature :D?!
     
  3. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    agreed, i think that u've shown urself to be quite mature anyways with ur thread about how u don't like guys to drink too much. this suggests to me that u drink carefully. i could be wrong though.
     
  4. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    lol....drink carefully? haha....nah...i just make sure theres someone who can take care of me when i get drunk :p

    also...i dont get violent/feisty when im drunk....i just become very very happy & spontanious and a giggle a lot
     
  5. zero_c

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    I know a lot of people who is married and have kids that still play games, especially Guitar Hero.
     
  6. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    29 and 20 isnt a big deal


    if he was 19 an you were 10, then there might be some difficulties
     
  7. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    LOL...yeah exactly...and i know women who are married and still like some DIE HARD SHOPPING...
    C lais!
    -rockon!!!
    && one of my aussie friends is married and she still went clubbin with me hahaha



    that would be sick....ew...
     
  8. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    i think the point is it depends on whether they have matured as a person and whether their body has fully grown to the extent of yours otherwise it would just be sick. i don't think u can ever get too old for some die hard shopping.

    #also as a side note how do u keep replying to threads when it says that ur offline on ur status.#
     
  9. i know someone dating a guy 22 yr older n they r now happier than ever... it's all up to u
     
  10. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    u can change ur status if u want to

    click edit options and u'll c a little box u can tick
     
  11. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    oh ok i see.
     
  12. stylistique

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    Ask yourself the question:
    1. Most of the problems arise because of the two people are at different stages in their life (for example: one is still in school, the other one is divorced and have 3 kids... now this would not make the relationship impossible, but it would be darn difficult!). This different in stage appears even when the age is similar.
    So if you think you two are in the same stage in life (you both ready to have a serious relationship or you both only take this relationship casually .. for instance) then go for it! :)

    2. Do you guys look good together (think of a young girl and and old grandpa in the wedding picture.. doesn't seem right)

    I think age difference only boils down to this.
    (from someone who dated guys from 7 years younger to 13 years older. Hope this helps :) )
     
  13. azncrazycooler

    azncrazycooler Well-Known Member

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    It can work out., My friend's doing the same thing.....It may feel weird at first, but it ends up to be so nice, They're happy. They don't care what other say, Its all good
     
  14. wheezo

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    i know a girl who is 19 and going out with someone that is 31, and she says she plans to marry him... -.-

    i also know another girl which is her friend and she's 19, and she's dating a 30 yr old???

    and they are both pretty cute... lucky old ppl...
     
  15. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    Looks like the Phrase '' Age is just a number '' was right...
     
  16. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    wow....19 and thinking about marriage....crap...
    i dont wanna think about it for the next 5 years hahaha
     
  17. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    she prob pregnant...have to get married ar
     
  18. livalicious

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    and we will all wait patiently for your outcome!!!

    Hope it works out well for you and him. I personally don't think 9 years is a gap. Older than you by 5 to 10 years is acceptable for my opinion.

    If he's a good catch then give it your best shot or you will regret later on!
     
  19. im 24 and i think 20 is the LOWEST i wud go without feeling like a..... shady fellow. i wud go 6 years above me no probs.
     
  20. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Wowwwww...ur 24!!??!! -what?
    I thought u were like....18 or something....dont ask me why...hahaha i just thought u were younger than i am
    -noclue hehe

    LOL...so ud date a 30 y/o....arent u scared shed want to get married and all that?
    Hmmm...dont think id date a guy whos younger....ok prob a few months or MAX one year.....
    but i dont feel attracted to younger guys anyway....so preferably 6years OLDER instead of YOUNGER