need courage

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Oct 22, 2007.

  1. girlie... i've read a number of ur threads n it sounds u have far too many guy friends revolving around u... n it sounds like ur confused n clueless... one minute ur heading towards a relationship with Bob n the next minute u have a crush on Ryan... n wot happends when u meet Ryan's brother n he turns out to b an even cooler dude?? or Bob might have a really hot cousin n falls in love with u at first sight...

    anyway... if Ryan makes a move on u knowing how Bob feels then he basically lose the friendship... n guys would usually pick friends before women... of coz there's always room for exceptions...
     
  2. rsx

    rsx Well-Known Member

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    Life would be good without remorse, but it's easier said than "felt."

    I would probably avoid getting into this dilemma situation, just because I have a gut feeling that something is going to go wrong in the near future (such as a broken friendship between Ryan and Bob because you decided to take Ryan over Bob, or ever worst).

    I can only imagine that it'll even turn out awkward if you decide to go with Ryan. Put yourself in Bob or Ryans situation and think about it.

    I'm not tryna be on the pessimistic side of things, but situations like this never turns out 100%, someone is gonna get hurt. If Bob is the down to earth type of guy and honestly does not mind (which I doubt), then by all means, go for it.
     
  3. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    lol you gotta love the triangle reaction
     
  4. rsx

    rsx Well-Known Member

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    ^Yeh, speaking of which, rini.. you should definitely join TVB to cast in one of the many love triangles with Ryan and Bob.
     
  5. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    lol, ahhhh TVB hahaha, always a traingle lol.
    hmmm, well its up to rin if she fancies taking a risk or not.

    whatever it is.....we be here!
     
  6. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member



    whoah, brother triangle situation is far from this
    not the same group of people

    what Bob's cousin??? your really running in circles now aren't you
    so now what? i'm not allowed to do anything reguarding anyone in life cause most people have cousins?
     
  7. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    Just to say to bob that there's nothing between you 2 and tell him that the one u like is his roommate..
     
  8. hahahaha... noooo of coz not... who m i to say wot ur allowed to do...

    if i didn't misread u said u were heading towards a relationship with bob... then the next minute u said u have a crush on Ryan... so i'm just saying whether ur being rational abt this... the brother or cousin is just an example of some of the ppl around them who might b "better" than them... n wot r u gonna do when u meet those "better" ppl??

    i knew a few guys that made a move on the girl their fds had a crush on... n they really really regret... the friendship just wasn't the same anymore... but if Ryan thinks u worth more than the friendship y dun u let him decide n take that step... that way even if things don't work out he wouldn't have to blame u for it...
     
  9. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    do you think this CBC has a future as a TVB star?
     
  10. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    Here's an update

    it seems their friendship bond is pretty strong that that roommate wouldn't even think about it
    so eh, whatever
    move on

    that goodness it was just a crush

    have to admire the guy for his loyalty
     
  11. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    ^ good thing you didn't make a move then ...