He's 29 and I'm only 20...

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Yong-Shi, Oct 22, 2007.

  1. u thought i was younger than you!!! im the one who acts like an adult all the time lolz -tongue2

    im not afraid of marriage, the sooner the better but not something to be rushed as its life long. (well maybe not in this day an age :p)
    im not attracted to girls with low levels of maturity, nor do i make friends with people who are immature as they tend to push my patience -devil.

    with that in mind, the girl who is younger than me would have to be mature and not acting like a kid all the time so the age doesn't really matter.

    girls prefer older guys, this i know. girls look for security and strength too so a younger guy (and even worse, a shorter guy) usually doesn't cut the mustard.
     
  2. ^^ and because u now know im older than you i dont want no more cheek CheekS ahahahaha :p
     
  3. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    seems like angie meets ur criteria hahhahhahhahahaha
     
  4. ^ i think angie is 19 :p (i assume this as its a year above what angie thought i was)
     
  5. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    maybe she'll tell u how old she is....ill just shhhhhhhh lol
     
  6. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Lol....probably...i dunno..i just thought u were a serious kiddo....;)

    marriage the sooner the better?
    Hmmmm....u sound like a traditional guy...i guess i used to be like u too...thinking....i wanna get married when im around... 24....but now im like...
    NOOO way....im still young...heaps of things i wanna do before i tie the knot & settle down....i guess were like total opposites...
    i dont really hang out with ppl who are too serious and act too mature...not that i hang out with too immature ppl either....but u know...we're still young....just wanna chillll for a bit....u only live once and have fun before u come to an age where u must be serious and all that
    thats what im thinking atm

    & on top of that im starting to think marriage isnt as important as i used to think...i see too many bad marriages around me

    -edit
    Lol....im not 19!!

    @kdotc i dont meet his criteria....no way ima get married within 6 years :p i think?
     
  7. kdct - ok qupid, enough of that -noclue
     

  8. Dont get me wrong, we have our laughs but i just try and stay away from people who enjoy being annoying and especially those who hurt others. i see humor and maturity as two different things.

    hmm just be careful, the worst thing is for you to end up being alone, as they say, all the good guys/gals get snapped up early so the longer you leave it the harder it will get to find a decent guy/gal and youll prolly have to make do with 2nd best :(. ..... or 3rd lolz

    dont worry about other failed marriages, focus on your own (when/if the time comes), just make sure it aint based on looks alone as you will get used to that within a few weeks. an example is i hear of many car crashes but it aint gona stop me getting one. also dont be so sure about your future by putting things off, today could be our last day after all.

    but you sound like a smart girl so i trust you know exactly what your doing, for all we know youll be telling us your getting married in a years time... or sooner.
     
  9. MissCheekS

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    Lol...is that the reason why u wanna get married? scared all the girls will be taken?
    && i think im passed the age where i go for looks only....that was more when i was 16 to 18....
    ive learned that looks dont matter that much....it sounds cliche...but its true...& of course...i dont want someone thats unattractive to me...but....as long as he doesnt make me wanna throw up when i c him im cool with it...
    doesnt have to be brad pitt or w/e


    Okay...i know what ur saying....i do believe in destiny i guess...& who knows....maybe i will meet some cool guy & do wanna get married within a few years...but i doubt it haha
    I dont wanna get married for the sake of it...
    if i have to get married for that reason i probably prefer ending up alone....

    i plan on travelin a lot while im still young....and with a bf....i dont think it would be the same....if he doesnt wanna join...it would suck....i dont wanna have someone waiting for me at home....& dont feel like having to miss someone...i cant have fun that way.....
     
  10. ^ i understand your situation, you sound like you got your head screwed on. :)
     
  11. chicteenager

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    Definitely. As long as u guys get a long and without any objection from family members, i dont' see why you guys can't be together. All the best!
     
  12. mikeyh

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    hahaha somehow i felel the same about those 2 -bigclap
     
  13. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    why older rather than younger? and whats wrong with dating somewhere who is 2 years younger, shouldn't be anything wrong with that. unless they are at immature age where dating them would be sick otherwise it should be fine.
     
  14. MissCheekS

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    whoah bbes...u sure ask a lotta Q's! :p
    like ive mentioned b4... i prefer a guy whos more mature than i am...
    So....tell me....why would i date a younger guy?

    Nothing wrong with dating a younger guy...but i think i just wouldnt wanna do it
     
  15. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    u have the enthusiasm of the youth and there is a greater sense of surprise.
     
  16. ^ i take it that ur young.....
     
  17. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    I think angie is under 18 so master_g you have to wait
     
  18. burnburn

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    all relationships cross hurdles.
    that's why people date, to see if that person they feel would have a connection to stay longer with each other.

    as said previously, age difference is not an issue if you don't make it an issue.

    but physically, a 29 yrold can still catch up to a physically active 20 yrold.
    he should still be into doing extreme stuff if you're into that...
     
  19. MissCheekS

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    LOL!!!!!

    WTH makes u think thaaaat?
    Hahahahahaha....omg....
    & how old are U mikeyh?

    im so older than 18 >.<!!
     
  20. ^ hmm.. why couldnt you just lift your head a wee bit more in your avatar?