Do you mind your partner have sex with ur friend?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by adorable_sky_dazzling, Aug 10, 2007.

  1. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    thing is though that secrets always come out sooner or later so its prob best to tell them now rather than him finding out later off somebody else. it will be ten times worse then. of course if he never knows then that would just be ideal.
     
  2. dragong87

    dragong87 Well-Known Member

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    i would mind.. it'd just feel heaps weird...
    unless they ask u should keep it in the past i think.. ur not lying to them if they don't ask...
     
  3. chicteenager

    chicteenager Member

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    I think that person got to be honest with his partner..sooner or later..better that way..no secret..
     
  4. ahwai83

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    it all depends on which side are u looking at it...but if i'm the guy n i truly love this gal...i wouldn't mind..;-p
     
  5. Kaitou_Kid

    Kaitou_Kid Well-Known Member

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    of course I would mind! any girl would. i think...
     
  6. ohsodl

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    the bf right now would probly be jealous and upset
     
  7. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    Werd.

    WTF?! Why would anyone share the sexual relationships they've had with previous people?

    I would assume that any woman I date probably has had sex with those in her prior relationships. I just don't ask about them. Why would I compare myself with her past when I'm the present?

    And what guy is naive enough to think that his SO was never intimate in her prior relationships?
     
  8. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    Are you allways so positive?? for me i would like to know because it was a friend but if it was some stranger then it's ok.
     
  9. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    thats why people should never go for their friends ex, especially if they met the ex thru that friend!!
     
  10. Calvin Tsan

    Calvin Tsan Well-Known Member

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    i would agree....but all the girls i've been in have all been virgins so that's 1 thing i'm glad to hear :D
     
  11. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    Hahaha u got good luck :)
     
  12. bummer.. i thought for a second this was a matter of friends with benefits.. LOL
     
  13. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    I guess I don't mind as long it's in the past... don't bother who he was with.... a friend or a totally stranger for me
     
  14. mszcyndie

    mszcyndie Well-Known Member

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    i think i'll mind...it feels like you're going out with recycled trash -_-'
     
  15. mszcyndie

    mszcyndie Well-Known Member

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    but then again, it sucks when you really "love" the person and then you find out so many things afterwards. maybe it's just cause of jealousy. after all jealousy is a bitch =[
     
  16. liltigger23

    liltigger23 Well-Known Member

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    he rly shouldnt mind.. because they dated.. so obviously things happened..
    :S but maybe u should talk to your friend about dating her ex's friends --'
    personally i wouldnt do it --' too much drama involved
     
  17. lol 'recycled trash'

    so you only go with virgins? -lol
     
  18. Kooslee

    Kooslee Well-Known Member

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    In my opinion, she should be honest about the matter. She should waits until the right time and tells him this. Relationship should be based on trust and how can he trusted her if she is hiding somethings. Besides if he really loves her, he will look pass this event. I think if my boyfriend told me this, it will bother me a bit. I would be lyeing if I said it didn't. But if he really loves me now, it is all that matter. Don't digg to deep in someone else past. At least he is honest about it. Right?
     
  19. turbobenx

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    yea i do mind. It's kinda nasty if my girl already been used before... and the worst part yet, a friend used her. However, if a girl did it wit my girl.... that's a different story. I wont mind wit a little threesome; 2 girls and me.
     
  20. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    I can't care about all his previous relationships... with or without sex... it's just he shouldnt have sex with anyone when dating me :p