One that is based solely on the hypothetical "love"? -sweat Neither of us can call the other "gold digger"
We grew up in the west, money is easier to come by, pure love does not, so we treasure love more than money. We have to work to accumulate love as money is paid automatically into my bank account by my employer. When a girl likes money, she likes what money can bring as benefits, and of course, love is a benefit and it can be confusing to discern the difference between money and love sometimes which is typically true for those whose weak heart flutters with the sight of money! This condition is often trained by a cause and effect cultural practice .. that of reward by money starting from birth (red packets from B Day) and ending with money bonus for passing exams with good grades. No parent ever teach love and most only ever pray to fortune god! Did you ever see a Chinese person pray to cupid, no it's always the money god, and this is your answer, the problem is not the girl but the cultural baggage/heritage!
lol it seems that there are some people who like movies so much that they think its the same in real life -lol
um the guys I dated didn't have cars ..? I didn't care ... I wouldn't mind a car, but I won't not date a guy because he doesn't have one I think what you say only applies to girls that are spoiled and get rides everywhere they go ...
money is good ;D but for me, the boyfriend i have right now is not rich, but he's really sweet and at least he's working. some girls like guys for only the money, but some actually like the guy NOT cause of their money, i dno. gold diggers are wackkkkkk. me and my bf use our money together. mostly girls will expect guys to treat them to the movies, eat, and do all that stuff, but it works both ways for me =]
well... for me.. not too rich... but not too poor.. at least can support ur life in the future.. n guys should be sporting at some point..
i once knew this girl that made her bf buy her all these expensive designer thigns. in the end. she got dumped haha!
not a very smart girl... some girls can make a guy WANT to buy her expensive designer stuff... -whistle...
I totally agree with you. Since money can 'buy' shelter and lots of other benefits in this economical world. Most of us, realised that when we grow up, for example: You see another child with a teddy bear, you ask you parents to buy you 1 too. Most of the parents wont buy their childeren the teddy bear, and saying to their child that they are broke, or dont have the money. As child you are slowly realising that you cant life without money, That without money you cant be happy. the world runs on money. If you mary a guy without money, that symbolized that the man isn't able to bring the women a safe feeling, which means no 'real' happinness. You can blame this to the culture or how humans wanted, that money rules their life As for the boy that doesnt want the girl to pay for them, it's due their culture. It could also be their nature, since most men want to be the 'leader' in a relation. That means if the men let their girl to pay their bill. Its a disgrace, and most of the men will consider the men to be a 'sik to hai fang' -sweat. It gives the men a feeling that he isn't able to take care of the girl. ahahahaha, so it's vica versa. Let the girl pay is 'sik tohai fang' let the boy pay ---> gold digger? Let the third person pay, such as you parents >.< My english is bad, so dont flame on me
so far just a Tiffany & Co necklace... n it was given to me by a bunch of girls... hmmmm looks like i need to work harder
hahahahahahahahahahahaha xD she should try harder on boys my ex bought me a swarovski watch.... he also bought me a Seiko watch... lots of other Swarovski jewellery... he gave me money even when I didnt want to accept it... it was really weird.... my current bf: and believe me... I didnt ask for anything... because I think I should buy everything myself if I want... especially when we're talking about expensive things... but erh... I'm not really a jewellery person........ so... i'll never buy jewellery myself hahhahahaa
hahahaha my ex bf bought me the exact same necky in pink! its one of the cheapest ones of the collection but i was so happy with it haha most expensive thing he got me was a nintendo DS with a game most expensive thing i got him was hugo boss bag
hahahaha... same here... i love it just because its from him ^^ most expensive thing i got my ex was a hugo boss parfum (20euro or something like that wuahahaha) xD (i hadnt got so much money... coz i was young and not working) most expensive thing he got me was that Swarovski watch and my current bf... he gave me 200€ (for my bday) when i wanted to buy my laptop i gave him a fatboy, a 30L aquarium + fishes i wanted to buy him an autoradio on his bday coming january... but he's already got one... so... i think i'll by him xenon lights... and some other things... but not creative enough now to think about that hahhaa
