What is your standard of your girlfriend? (for guys)

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by KaY_xD, Oct 22, 2007.

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What is your standard of your girlfriend?

Poll closed Jul 18, 2010.
  1. must have a good body

    2 vote(s)
    2.4%
  2. must have a pretty face

    29 vote(s)
    35.4%
  3. must have a great heart, love me very much

    41 vote(s)
    50.0%
  4. must listen to me all the time

    2 vote(s)
    2.4%
  5. i don't know. XD

    8 vote(s)
    9.8%
  1. Calvin Tsan

    Calvin Tsan Well-Known Member

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    i think mostly top 2, but then again. most of the time, girls choose me, rather than i choose them....and they have real great body's :D
     
  2. brazze

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    I have found one who fits totally to me.

    I am not sure whether I can add it here, but... She's 6 years older than me.

    What shall I do?

    Shall I ask that in a new Topic?
     
  3. brazze

    brazze Member

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    noone helps me :'(
     
  4. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    wth??? -mellow...should i even be taking u serious????

    anywayz

    if ya like her...and she likes u....then whats the issue....
     
  5. Nervios

    Nervios Well-Known Member

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    age is just a number lol, you wont know how you two would be if you dont have a try
     
  6. kickunow

    kickunow Well-Known Member

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    well i say the most important is that i like her and she likes me back, the other stuff isnt as important as having feelings for one another in a relationship in my opinion
     
  7. lol another pet peeve of mine just popped up... "age is just a number"... want a 15 yo girl going out with a 30 yo man? or a 20 yo guy with a 60 yo woman?
     
  8. wolf

    wolf Well-Known Member

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    hmmm.....traditional, conservative, kind, cares about the environment, loves children, frugal, family oriented, independent, bright ( doesn't have to be a genius, but can't have a brain like Paris Hilton neither ) , no drugs, preferred non-drinker but once in a while is ok. She has to at least look decent about a 7 on a scale. She has to be as beautiful on the outside as the inside.
     
  9. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    lol...dont be exaggerating now lol...to some point it shouldnt matter la....


    soooooo....with this whole wish list u just wrote down.........
    what do u have to offer the ladies eh?

    no offense... its a serious Q.....!

    i mean...it seems like ur asking for....like ehm....Ms. Perfect here...
    & i assume u'd want a partner whos equal to u...so u must me...ehhh....Mr. Perfect?
     
  10. wolf

    wolf Well-Known Member

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    What? Its not that demanding? Come on a 7 on the looks scale with a good personality thats traditional and conservative. Not like I'm asking for a model here or something. Don't many fobs exhibit those traits? Besides what I want and what I actually get attracted to are two completely different things. It seems I always end up getting attracted to the bad girls type subconsciously even though those are the girls I despise the most. Hey go figure -shrug
     
  11. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Thats cuz you are a bad boy deep down. -lol
     
  12. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤


    yeah like wind says....takes one to know one...bad girls gets bad boyyyy

    && u did not just say traditional and conservative :p

    "traditional, conservative, kind, cares about the environment, loves children, frugal, family oriented, independent, bright ( doesn't have to be a genius, but can't have a brain like Paris Hilton neither ) , no drugs, preferred non-drinker but once in a while is ok"

    u must be quite old seems like ur looking for a wifey lol....nothing wrong with being demanding though...
    just curious...
    cuz like ive mentioned before...i always wonder...when ppl make a whole wishlist....
    does it mean they've got all that too?
     
  13. wolf

    wolf Well-Known Member

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    Aren't those traits what most traditional conservative girls have? Well those traits I listed, I also see things the same way, so ya lol. I don't see the point in being with someone who is the opposite of you. I'm getting my degree at the end of April, I care about the environment, I don't litter, I'm family oriented, and I'm clean as in no drugs, alcohol. I can cook ( well simple stuff that is ) and I'm good at domestic household chores, and I have experience with working with children. I'm not a big spender neither and I don't think I look that bad. I workout to stay healthy, I'm considered tall for an Asian. I'm willing to make some compromises , doesn't have to be exactly like that. Hell I fell for a druggie, alcoholic, materialistic, school skipping bitch so that tells you how flexible I am lol and no I'm not old, I'm in my early 20's just raised by traditional conservative parents. Hey at least I'm not like one of those fat chubby girls who want a handsome looking model that has muscles, is 6' + tall and is loaded with money and has a PHD. Now thats demanding.
     
  14. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    whoaaahhhh skool skipping bitch ehhh....i skip skool too wo :(.....hahaha
    yes u are very flexible u want something but fall something completely different...

    && hey.... ya never heard? OPPOSITES ATTRACT....and i can see why though....
    sometimes opposites can complete/fulfill each other... it can lead to some big fights....but hey
    i reckon....some action in ya relationship can be good...lotsa passion lol

    if ppl are the same it can get boring sometimes.....it depends u know....it could go the other way la
     
  15. actually, i wouldnt mind a traditional and conservative gf =)

    in fact.. i kinda prefer a conservative girl over a liberal one lol
     
  16. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    i wouldnt mind a mix of both of em......cuz i kinda am a mix of both of em.....how bout that?
    im not conservative but i still have my own principles...
     
  17. wolf

    wolf Well-Known Member

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    Not the same amount of skipping as her. You can practically say she isn't even in the class. If you want to see the end result of when opposites attract take a good look at me lol.
     
  18. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    hey its not always true la...
    i mean....i know couples who are opposites but they doing well.....

    dont be so negative wolf....! :p
     
  19. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    im not demanding, anyone who gets on well with me is fine. the only demand is that they can't be too dumb and can't be a shopholic cos i don't have much money being a student lol.
     
  20. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    i dont really understand why guys keep saying this...
    i mean...just cuz we shopaholic...doesnt mean we spending ur money right....
    as long as we can handle i and we manager our own money well...then i dont see a problem wo....
    && we still young...we just wanna buy nice stuff and spoil ourselves....
    ok...i should speak for myself...but ya know what im saying right...
    ive noticed that some guys find it a turn off...(not just from this thread but read it in a book as well)