Would you still b friend with your Ex?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by moremoret, Nov 17, 2007.

  1. sakai

    sakai New Member

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    depends in what situation actually. and how you manage it. i've seen so many relationship end normally they cant be friends back i dont know why
     
  2. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    sometimes it's better to have clean breakup ... that way your new relationship with this new girl can start fresh. and the new girl won't wonder if there's still some lingering thing from the past.
     
  3. my ex become my hi and bye fren
     
  4. bbyally

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    i find it kind difficult to be friends but sometimes if you want them back you would want to still be friends..
     
  5. karoen

    karoen Well-Known Member

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    it's hard...but i'd say yes...
     
  6. jlyn_c

    jlyn_c Member

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    well basically i would love to be friends again with my ex ....... it won't be easy at 1st but i do believe that
    true friends are hard to get ...... exs are the best friends you can have other than you own best friends ....

    but sadly ..... i can't find my ex which i felt bad of dumping him ...... i always wonder why is he .....

    would love to keep in touch of him but he seems to be disappear from this world ...... sad .....
     
  7. elton5354

    elton5354 Member

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    i try to be friends, but its not as close to as it once was, hard to communicate after
     
  8. no way... coz i know i'll never get over him if we're still fds... my brain will keep playing the image of us over n over again each day n my emotions will just b screwed...
     
  9. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    hehehe u should be fine if u guys broke up a long time ago and ur sure u dont like him anymore i guess?
     
  10. Kaitou_Kid

    Kaitou_Kid Well-Known Member

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    its hard to be friends with that guy friend. because if you were unhappy with them to begin with, you will remember those unhappy thoughts. and you might want that to change. its hard to be friends with my ex bf. because i don't remember how to.
     
  11. karoen

    karoen Well-Known Member

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    lol same situation here...i'd like to know how he's doing...but a couple weeks after we broke up i never heard anything from him anymore...which is really sad...
     
  12. Kmani

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    Shit don't do it
     
  13. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    could u just quit spamming for a bit u freakin idiot!!! -noclue

    ur so bloody annoyin
     
  14. sakurafossil

    sakurafossil Well-Known Member

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    it really depends... we would say we will be friends... but we never talk to each other or hang out... sooo i guess no... lol..
     
  15. lokey

    lokey Member

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    I'm still good friends with an ex I broke up with 2 yrs ago...it takes some time but if feelings were genuine at the time of going out, u can always be friends again
     
  16. ileex3

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    hm.. i dont think its a good idea to be friends after a break up. you should wait like a month or few. its really weird how once together you were really happy with the person, than after a break it.. its the total opposite. soo.. being friends with an ex is only good if its neutral and the couple feelings has gone away. :p
     
  17. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Not really. A lot of times, the irony is that if you break up, your relationship with your ex could/ would even be better than the time you were together as couples. Probably bc there's no more strains in between or fear hence peeps are more open after their break up.
     
  18. Spike23qq

    Spike23qq Well-Known Member

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    I think its oke.....unless she feels uncomfortable. I believe it depends on the person.
    I broke up with my ex..but we still play basketball lol.
     
  19. purplerose_04

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    is it hard to stay friends? i think if ya see them around them it is normal to greet them and ask how they are doing but staying friend is a lil weird... unless ya hang around the same group then that is nother story..
     
  20. shinybow

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    it is very hard to be "old" friend if you break up with somebody. You always get that weird feeling.