it's pretty obvious that he likes you. You putting your head on his shoulder also can also indicate that you feel the same way about him. I notice that guys don't really ask you out but kind of tests the water. They fear rejection and because you kinda showed that you like him, he probably wants to have something more
Guys put their arms around a "friend" sometimes....at least from my experience... some guys are just touchy like that... but u sorta lead him onto it the second time cuz u rested ur head on his shoulder...he musta thought yayyy heres my chance lol hmmm...caressing hands eh....hahaha yeah.....thats a bit too imo... guys usually dont hold a girls hand for no reason right? but i dont know...look for clues the next time u hand out with him... either he wants to get it on with u or he really likes u cuz ur a "hotmama" i guess lol...hey dont all the guys want to sleep with a girl if shes hot hahaha at least thats what my brother keeps telling me
you like him he likes you. what's the problem?? as for his friend, all three of you are old enough to be mature about these things. dont let his friend stop you. like everyone else says, go and test the water. it's winter time say you want to go for a walk and its the perfect opportunity for you two to be alone and lots of opportunity for him to cuddle up to you if he's interested. that one always worked for me before.
I think ur brother said that because he's a player lol. Normally yes not allways. Do girls want to sleep with guys who's hot?? Hotmama i think if you like him then u should reject his friends first and tell to his friend the truth or else he will never ask you out.
i dont think my brother is a player... probably trying to keep me away from boys =/ guys and girls are different...e.g. when i see a guy i say to my friend...oh hes so cute and hot.. when some guys see a hot girl...they say...wow...id tap that ass...
lol thanks for all your comments. right now, i'm not feeling like he likes me. he told me he'd meet up with me after his thanksgiving dinner but didn't. i don't know if he intentionally forgot or if he just didn't want to anymore. he still haven't contacted me about it. i don't know if i should be the one to ask what happened. what do you guys think now?
^ i think you should leave him alone until he calls you. If he is truly serious, he would keep his word. Mind you if he has extenuating circumstances, then it might have slipped off his mind.
hmmm...welll...what do u want? do u like this guy or not? hmmm...if ur not sure...just play dumb and dont ask..... well...even if u do like him...u just gotta wait and see...unless ur the kinda girl who'd make a move on a guy...? if u dont like him...try not too hang out with him that much and act distant...dont let him caress ur hand or put his arm around u
agreed. also, u want to be in a relationship that is meaningful, not one where he can just use u and drop u as he pleases.
You have to be patient and wait that he will call to you. If he said that he would meet you after the thanksgiving dinner then he will call and apologize in time.
This is a clear statement of : He groped you! This is what it all means in a concise answer especially that he is now ignoring you! !
i don't think he is ignoring me. i think he forgot. i saw him today and to me, he was his regular self. he didn't bring up thanksgiving though and i didn't want to ask.
^ Hmm, if he didnt mention it or apologize, i think you should altogether drop the issue of being with him. One thing that is important is that no matter, you keep your word when you are or going to be in a relationship. This is based on respect and shows how much you care about a person.