He's 29 and I'm only 20...

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Yong-Shi, Oct 22, 2007.

  1. MissCheekS

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    wellllll.....i didnt want my friend to take a pic but he insisted so..........muahaha
     
  2. ^ and your V signs are the wrong way around :p
     
  3. MissCheekS

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    nope....its my way to do it....
    the other way around
    -sorc
     
  4. yeowz

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    whether u like it or not... age gap exists...
    i just broke off with my girlfriend who is 12 years younger than me...
    no matter what the interest and perspective in life is totally different..
     
  5. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    dayme 12 years .... its like when u're grade 6 ur gf was just born
     
  6. ab289

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    men like them young; women like them old. i don't see any problem - age is just a number
     
  7. 12 years is maybe a little much..... 8 years TOPS
     
  8. Kate204

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    Its ok if its a couple or a few years apart. But then its like 15 to 20 years difference, something must be wrong! i'm a 20 year old girl that have gone out with guys a few years older and a year younger. Either way, nothing wrong with it! Right now, I'm dating a guy who is a year older than me, which i preferred more because now, i feel like the young one in the relationship.
     
  9. turbobenx

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    age doesnt matter. They jsut gotta look good from the inside and out. period.
     
  10. Sweetsumigirl

    Sweetsumigirl Well-Known Member

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    I think you just need to spend time monitoring if this guy is right for you.give it a good year friendship before moving on to a relationship. If you see him enough in one year you'll know of any flaws that he may have that may change your current views.
     
  11. ckhar

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    .... is just a number !!!! but some ppl try to get along even there is a big gap of age....... at the begining, of course everything goes fine but later, either party will get the feeling that they can't get along...... what happen to their future children? may be they didn't have chance to be grandparents and the children will lost one of the parents when they are young...... because of their parents gap ..... but very hard to say also .... even for those couple eg gap 2 yrs gap, one of them die in young age, the children also lost one of the parents...

    Then, they should think properly to go further, but I think the older shouldn't be selfish and should look for a better not too young

    Men of course forever likes to look for young beautiful wife, but, I think they are selfish..... spoil their future life...... suffer is the children
     
  12. i saw one guy with my sis, he is alot older than her, when i saw him i was gona go and rip his head off, but my sis explained.... and told me he is just a friend which i have no reason to not believe.

    i basically told her to tell him that he better know his place and if he tries something then its on.

    he wont come to the house as he is afraid of me and my bro and he should be tbh.


    age doesn't matter... as long as it ain't your younger sister.
     
  13. MissCheekS

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    hmmm...how old's ur sis? & how old is he?

    I guess theres not much u can do about it...
    be careful with threatening...
    the more u tell her she shouldnt do it and try to forbid her to see him
    the more shes gonna wanna be with him....
     
  14. ^ she is 19, true what you said, well its all good now anyway, if anything we would have went direct to the guy, old skool but thats brothers for ya.
     
  15. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    Age is nothing more than a number representing how many times you went around the sun.
     
  16. MissCheekS

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    no offense...19 = old enough to decide..
    i never listen to my brother....and hes not overprotective either...luckily

    lol...master_g...i thought u were a peaceful person!!!
    -sorc
     
  17. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    ^ He's just doing his job as an older brother. I don't blame him.
    I'd beat the living crap out of anyone who messes with my younger brother. I'd never tell him that, though. Haha.
     
  18. im peaceful (mainly by choice, as i wasn't always so.....) but when it comes to family, especially my mom and sister... things change (or revert.. or whatever).-sweat


    Exactly, you gota be an older brother to understad these things -coolio
     
  19. MissCheekS

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    i know ur trying to be nice to ur sis and ur trying to protect her...iBUT
    m someones little sister and i can imagine how annoying it must be if my big brother would try to control me
    id flip and do exactly what they wouldnt want me to just to bitch haha