When you have your heartbroken, how long does it take to heal...? It's so hard when you still love someone so much...but it feels like that have taken your heart and shattered it into a million pieces and sprinkled it into the wind... It's so hard when they still give you some form of hope, that as your heart rips...you keep trying to mend it because of this little glimpse of hope, only to have it being torn again... I don't know what to do... He says he still loves me but maybe its best to just be friends, but then... He says he's doesn't know, but by the way he answers me when I ask him...I think he wants to leave me for sure... We had our difficulties...but... I even promised I will try harder...but...he says he don't think he can handle it anymore... Just a week ago...we were happy, and he was telling me he loved me always... Just a couple of weeks ago...we was out on a date, we were so happy and it was all so perfect... But now...it's all flashing before my eyes...and it's all just running away from me...like it's some kind of dream... How can you mend a broken heart...? I'm so lost...broken...
Awwww....shini_ddd.....i feel so sorry to hear this girl... i know u love him a lot cuz uve posted about him before :( Thats the way love goes...one minute u feel like u will be together and are a strong couple...but the next moment everything can be gone I am sure u can find a new guy cuz ur not ugly and u seem like a cool chick.... I know that hes the only one u can see at the moment but trust me...in a while...u will be just fine As for getting over him...give urself a deadline....listen to sad love songs....call ur friends.... stay at home in ur pj's and cry ur eyes out & after that just try to move on....hang out with ur gf's and all that Do stuff to keep urself busy so u dont have to think about him too much.... wish u all the best girl... -flow
Awww, poor you...-hug Its never easy to go thru a break up but things happen and ppl change... i think the best is that you vent it all out, cry as much as you like, but REMEMBER one thing: NEVER blame and reprimand yourself for having made mistakes that might have caused this break up!... Take it as a positive experience from the future .... Cry, vent, or do anything you like during this period but of course make sure dont do anything rash... Remember, PA is behind you. You go girl -^_^
I know, you guys always here no matter what I do. It's just been so hard...I just had so much stuff going on thats taking a heavy toll on me, and he just adds the icing onto the cake with this... I do love him lots...so much...thats why it hurts like crazy... I think it's karma getting me back to be honest... I've always been a heartbreaker before...and for once I finally found something I want to keep so bad, and karma strips it away from me...breaks my heart... What goes around comes around I guess... Don't worry wind, I'm not stupid lol, there's too many people who still rely on me too much for me to go and do anything rash, I'm heartbroken, not suicidal hahaha. I'm just so sick of crying, but it just keeps happening, honestly, there is 70% water in the body, I think I only have about 20% left hahaha
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everything its going to be okay!!!!!!!!!!! 1 question does he have any classes with you? if he does.... man thats kinda hard... but you can do it!!! focus on what ever you were doing. remember memories come at an unexpected time. flashbacks soooo when that comes......... Punch a homeless or laugh it off ......... TAKE CARE!!! I don't think is karma.. maybe just things didn't work out..
u c...reading stuff like this...makes me feel scared and not wanna get into a relationship....ugh makes me feel all negative...
Its not so bad =) gotta be brave...well good luck la. ^___^ don't feel to bad...i think its best to just relax and think it over. If you guys can't get together anymore...then he prob wasn't meant to be. -innocent Don't cry too much that will make you drink more water. -detect
Nah, dont feel scared, you just gotta find the rite one... add oil Angie... -^_^ all the non working relationships only make you stronger in the end.
lol....find the right one....life long journey...haha...jk but we will see....perhaps im too demanding...but no way ima settle for less than what i want
thats the rite attitude... dont settle less than what you are worth... for every man, theres a woman, and vice versa... wish you success in finding your happiness.... -flow
hahaha thnx wind...same to u la... wow..its been such a long time since uve been nice to me dude hahaha
Lol, i think this is the first time.... must be the cold affecting my brain..... *makes notes to self... be nice to angie from now, at least until after christmas* -innocent
haha..oh well...lets say u were treating me "nomal" at first...and then came the discussions abt fetishes etc lol
-lol, you started first with the J-dolls, if my memory serves me rite..... or was it me with your crotch fetish? we better keep it in the Offtopic boop thread cuz we are hijacking shini's...
If i recall you guys haven't been together for long? Anyways just let time heal your wounds, find somethings to do, join different social clubs/groups and hang out with your gfs. Hopefully everything will be better soon
Awww, poor shini, the time it takes to heal a broken heart depends on how you look at it. Sometimes as short as a week and sometime for a year or 2...(just hope you're those quick healers). And it is good to tell someone these things, it'll not hurt you badly and leave a scar...
