Well, i sorta have a girlfriend, except shes not really my girlfriend.. yet -innocent A lot of people have said that she likes me and even a bling person can see that etc etc.. i like her too and its all good. We've said to each other that we love each other on the phone.. hugged her a few times.. it sounds sweet ehh? -lol but.. i know she stil likes me and all.. but she doesnt really think of me as an important person in her life.. our relationship sometimes fluctuates.. sometimes really good sometimes bad.. and its been bad lately.. i know that she likes her best friends better than me by alot.. she always on the phone with them like everynight.. so im really confusedd.. i text her sometimes but she sometimes she doesnt reply because shes over her phone plan limit.. on msn, she always talks to her friends first and i know because she takes ages to reply to me.. so does she actually like me? what should i do... :(
errr....right....she loves u, tells u that, u guys hug and all.... but.... ur not important? hmmm....thats an interesting one... ehm maybes shes the friends before bf type of girl? ok....when i like someone id give him most of my attention....but thats just me... if u dont like it just tell her u want more attention in a subtle way
hmm. when i like someone, i still give equal attention to both friends and gf. but thats just me. lol
just speak to her more seriously about it if u really do like her, then just ask her officially to be ur gf then it's all settled? =)
Hey, I'm in the same situation, but I'm on the other end. My I hooked up with a girl that I met at my friends party. We went on a few dates, its clear that she likes me and I think I like her. So yes we are going out. But, I only really call her once a week and when I'm talking to her I'm not really paying attention to her. I don't know why, but I don't have that "I can't wait to talk to her" kind of feeling. I rather devote my time to doing stuff with my friends rather than her.... Its not like I don't like her.
you've said "I Love You"s but just hugging? that sounds really weird honestly she might like you, but sounds like your not a priority so, eh, she might be using you to fill in time, i wouldn't trust someone so off the mark
umm, ure sayin she may like u a bit, but not so much well she doesnt love u then, cos shes not givin u much attention
i dont think i can do that yet.. its kinda a bit too .. awkward.. shes a really fun and always jokes around i do that too.. i love her and my friends.. maybe occasionally ill give more attention to her, and reject friends to go out with her,, but none of that is happening.. :( dont think its that simple.. maybe its easier to relate with you... why dont you have the "icant wait to talk to her" feeling? i always have it, always thinking about her.... if you like or even love that person, wouldnt you want to be with her? you take prefer to stay with friends than her?? thats weird :( maybe you guys have the same perspective.. they're all girls.. like 5 of them i dont really want to give up yet..
Then what you gonna do now?? That's what i want to know. If it was me i would ask her if she really like me but it just me.
maybe she's just a bit nervous when she talks to you on msn, and that she's ranting to her friends saying "oh my god his talking to me!" some girls are very good at hiding their feelings -^_^ just keep talking to her whenever you see her, and find common interests . haha, don't worry, love grows with time good luck!
hmm well no offense but doesn't seem like she really loves you that much if she isn't even paying attention to you this may be way off mark but maybe she just doesn't want to be in a relationship so she just brushes you off. you should talk to her about it and clear up what her real feelings are
Yeah, your girl might only think of you as a good friend, but then lots of girls love chatting to their girl friends especially when they're in their early teens. Some girls can talk forever and never get tired of it but it doesn't mean she doesn't find you important. Don't lose heart.
