Lemme guess, parents are involved?!? Or angie wanted to do something *taboo* -lol Lets hear this story of yours cuz im bored.
hahaha...yes parents involved...his...not mine....mine are pretty open minded...i think im allowed to date who i want but i think they dont prefer me dating a muslim cuz they scared i'll become one too....=/ (not trying to discriminate) anyways....was secretly in love with a guy for like a whole year.... and when we finally had something goin on....and it got serious....the party was over -cry2 so...liked him for like 1 year....together with him for like ONLY 4 months and took me 2 years to get over its not like i cried or was sad for 2 years but i just wasnt really 100% over him shiet...its so pathetic when i think back.... anyway....no regrets though sometimes things just dont go ur way....
Heres for shini and angie. Dont thank me, pleasure is all mine. -innocent @ angie That really sucks for you. I thought you were more outspoken. Who made the first move then? You or him? How did you get it going?
aww angieee *huggles* it took me...*blush* 4-5 years to get over my first ex, because we broke up mutually too...but he and my friend started dating...and i jus didnt think much of it, but when i saw him... my feelings still havent died... it was messy... then a couiple years since i last saw him, we wasd at a party and i saw him...and it was still like...heartbeating and stuff... i always kept thinking about him for ages... kinda got over him... now im in this mess...aiyyy....wonder how long it will take me to get over this one...
i dont ever really confess to guys...it happened like this: me and this guy were really really close...seeing eachother few times a week but nothing ever happened i was too proud and insecure to confess at that time...so i was like...forget abt it... and when i tried to get over him...i just acted very distant....and started to hang with other guys he got mad and asked me whats wrong....so thts when i told him that i was trying to get over him... he said he never realized i liked him...and he liked me too and we started dating hehe btw i was 16....unexperienced....and naive... not that im all experienced and all that no though...-lol ----------------- ewww...im sure u tried to be nice...butta no thanks shini can have em!!!! thnx babes... im sure u'll get over him soon babes...the first cut is the deepest.... i must say i never felt the same way again....which is bad cuz my last bf and i dated like 2,5 YEARS and still i have the feeling that my first ex bf made a bigger impression on me
awwww.... poor girl... -hug... it's ok to cry... cry as hard as u can... cry till ur tears r all dried up... cry till ur so tired that u can finally fall asleep coz u kept waking up in the middle of the night from dreams about him... but don't worry dear... u'll find that each day as u wake up... the pain will get less n less... until one day ur fully recovered... but the scar will always b there... but it's not a bad thing... coz it's there to tell u that u once gave a man all ur love... n all those good memeories were once real... it took me more than 3 yrs to get over one of my ex... we were even planning wot to name our kids n stuff the night before we broke up... he made lots n lots of promises to me... n i was like u when we broke up... "y did he promise me the world n not keep it??" but now when i think about it... i'm sure he meant every single word when he said it coz he really did love me... but when he didn't love me anymore... i couldn't force him to put up an act of love forever n make him live in misery... it's better to just let him go... "Love is like a rush of wild wind The scent of a summer rose A whistle blowing on a distant track And when it goes, it goes...."
awww shini. hmm its hard to be happy with so much happening eh? its very strange how his mum says ure welcome... i wonder if he welcomes u tho? anyway smile more =DDD
his mother loves me haha, i remember he told me his mum never liked any of his exs before, but with me, she hopes things work out... but im pretty sure it wont happen. yeah i guess dawn is right... i jus got to keep going forward... at the moment, my first ex truely is the one who made the biggest impact... but i dont know how it will be now... I think my tears are drying...or maybe i jus ran out of tears...
woah, thats deep. how can he plan about kids and stuff one night and the next dump u. that is quite crude i must say. no one switches in one day.
i guess it just means he hasn't really been happy for a while... but he was willing to try n stay in the relationship for my happiness... i could've stayed off that subject on the night we broke up n let it drag on... but i'm glad i didn't...
So glad so many of you all posted and tried to help Shini_D. *Thumbs up* Good job guys. I so proud to be part of this forum as well. Keep it up. Shini_D, time heals everything. You are still young and there are still many good guys around for you to love once again. All the best~
I know, I'm glad everybody so supportive and helping me giving advice and stuff... I think I'm finally picking myself back up... But it still hurts ya know...
