He's 29 and I'm only 20...

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Yong-Shi, Oct 22, 2007.

  1. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    Well the thing is, they may seem like a bitch but behind all the nagging and yelling there's nothing but care. They've been down the road before and they don't want you to make the same mistakes they did. They just want to lead you down the best path possible.
     
  2. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    all christians play the peace card, until someone disagrees with them, then its conquering time.


    is your sister a jebus freak too, dude? :p
     
  3. honkiebonkie

    honkiebonkie Well-Known Member

    When it comes down nothing stops couples. The final question is love. And if that is present, nothing else can be a problem.
     
  4. yes i know what your saying its true -surr, that's why i minimise the stuff i go on about lolz :)
    thanks for the info




    what my sister is or isn't is none of your business, remember that -_-2
     
  5. surplusletterbox

    surplusletterbox Well-Known Member

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    No further posting from the initiator of this thread. The relationship has failed?!
     
  6. gordonng85

    gordonng85 Well-Known Member

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    9 years is quite large. But hey, you like him long time! Just think twice when you answer: " Yes, I do ..."
     
  7. sebi_1

    sebi_1 Active Member

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    Even with the 9 year differnce, i think things could work out fine, for it's the interaction between the two of you that matters the most....

    some prefer guys that are a lot more mature, some prefer having guys that are of the same age so they may have more things in common etc.

    i don't think age really matters..... i know a couple who are 12 years apart in age, but the relationships stil going and strong.
     
  8. Gurly

    Gurly Active Member

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    Age is just 2 stupid numbers...it's saying nothing... ;)
     
  9. what about the rich 3 digit guys.
     
  10. adeliemiao

    adeliemiao New Member

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    hi yong-shi..myh bf is 33 and im 24.. so he is 9 years older than me too... hahahahahahaha
    1st... i think my mum was kinda dislike him for his age....
    but i think she shouldnt think that way...
    he has a good job... System Enginerr.. working with a reliable international company..not to mention he is a Bruneian and of cos working and earning bruneian dollar..
    Myself personally is Malaysian which live in a city near to Brunei.. hahaa Miri, Sarawak.

    Wonder if any of u get any idea where i stay... LOL

    I feel safe when being with him. He is a person with variety of knowledge and hobby also more or less the same with me.

    Actually I dunno y my mum so picky ... my ex ex ex bf's she dislike them too...
    1st is a cafe owner. well this one is only 3 years older than me. she hates him too
    2nd is 1 year younger than me..but to be accurate..it's just 4 months younger. she hates him too.
    this one... wahhhhh she hates him also!! erghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    im not a princess or super model.. she should know this and dont be too picky about choosing her daughter bf. LOL sorry yong shi..i started something else in ur topic jor. hahaha sorry...
     
  11. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol age shouldnt be a problem if u both love each other ^^
     
  12. yes it does matter... and if you go out with a 30 something year old.. she'll be classified as a pedophile..
     
  13. KraziiVtGrl

    KraziiVtGrl Member

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    haha age doesn't matter to me...as long as he isn't like grandpa or daddy old....because i know my friend is 18 and her bf is like 28 and yea...they love each other to death...well to the point where they are about to get married...and they don't look bad together..
     
  14. misztracey

    misztracey Member

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    age ain nothin but a number!
     
  15. dreamere89

    dreamere89 Member

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    if you really like the guy, 9 years isn't THAT big of a deal, especially as you get older the gap will seem closer.
     
  16. Dohh_boy

    Dohh_boy Well-Known Member

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    I think age matters to a certain extent. 9 years seems a bit steep but I dunno, a lot of it depends on maturity as well
     
  17. aniking_7

    aniking_7 Well-Known Member

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    Like most people say
    9 years isn't much difference
    if love each other then fine
    good luck then
     
  18. Hustler

    Hustler Well-Known Member

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    The 9 years age difference is not weird to have relationship . You shouldn't be bother about it . Any how I like to date with my own age .In my opinion big age difference may prove harmful in the long run . If you are dating in your own age ,you can better understand each other .
     
  19. frostshards

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    i woudl feel weirde about this. 5 years already seems like mi datnig a little sister. however, wen ur 30, the age difference doesnt look that bad anymore....
     
  20. serebii

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    if u r rlly liking eachother, then the difference between ages doesn't matter ; i guess :laugh: