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Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by SinnLORd, Dec 2, 2007.

  1. SinnLORd

    SinnLORd Member

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    what do u talk about to the person you like in order to get some kind of conversation going. do you gossip about other ppl? do you talk about what happened the other day? or do you talk about them rather than yourself.
    if you talk about them.. what do you ask about..

    this is a girl classmate im interested in,
     
  2. [N]

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    talk while implying sexual lust haha.....jp talk random stuff unless shes' one of those uptight people i guess.
     
  3. frostshards

    frostshards Well-Known Member

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    dont talk about urself. wen ur with her, talk about whats happening around u guys, an object, anything. if u cant thinkof anyhting to talk about the things around you, talk about her. . only talk about what happened the other day if its funny. oh and avoid silences, always be doing something. might be a good idea to bring ur laptop along as a backup plan, if u blank out, u can use ur comp to cover up. also , its good to show her stuff on ur comp too. that willg et things going.
     
  4. dcdc

    dcdc Active Member

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    damn this is hard. depends on your girl. some girls will just keep on talking and talking, which gives you a lot of time to think about something to talk about. otherwise it's all up to you. haha. i would suggest since you're in school with this girl, talk about classes and go on from there. don't base your conversation on yourself though. that's pretty self centered. try to talk about things that your girl can relate back to or answer back to. basically just keep asking questions. for me at least, i would ask her the common things, assuming you see her frequently. try to make her laugh a little too. haha. no one likes a bore.
     
  5. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    actually i think this is quite easy


    dont talk about others, dont about much about yourself
    ask her about HER, or talk about related issues between the two of you, such as homework

    try to relate with her, so maybe compare stuff between you two (not on a competitive level)
    like what kinds of elective classes you are taking, and ask and talk about why you both picked the classes you did


    that way it's not too personal to freak her out, but more personal than, "oh how about that war that's going on"


    oh yea, laughing is always a good thing too
    but try not to be doing it at the expense of others, you dont know if she's ok with that or not
    and usually it doesn't make the greatest first impression if your raggin on someone
    like tell a funny (but not humiliating) story about a teacher,

    talk about people in a positive light
    like maybe like, "oh this teacher is really cool because of . . . ."
     
  6. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ Good advice.
     
  7. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    ask about her is a good advice :)
     
  8. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    if i like someone...means we get along...and that means i dont have to make up stuff to say to keep a convo going...
    it should come naturally imo...should be ok to talk about anything....
    u can talk about both u...u can talk about her...
    whatever u like lo....
     
  9. maybellina

    maybellina Well-Known Member

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    Agree! When u are comfortable with someone, even when it's silence, it won't be awkward. Just talk about anything you like or whatever comes to mind :)
     
  10. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    yesyes....silences can be quite enjoyable at times hehe
     
  11. SinnLORd

    SinnLORd Member

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    what are ways to hint that you like her but not be so obvious to ask her out
     
  12. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    lol...come onnn...be a man about it hahaha

    anyways,
    hints= compliments, ask her number?
     
  13. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    that you feel good when you around her... in a half teasing manner

    ask her what kind of activities she does during the weekend n ask if you could join :p
     
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    man just ask her out, don't be soo cryptic...spit it out
     
  15. 1234566

    1234566 Member

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    I think you really should just ask her out...
    cause you never know maybe she likes u too
    wish you luck =)
     
  16. AViolet07

    AViolet07 Well-Known Member

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    how if the gal work in the same area with me? we know where we're working but dunnoe each other, and she's pretty also, so how do i know whether she got bf? should i approach her?
     
  17. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ you can introduce yourself and start from there.
     
  18. SinnLORd

    SinnLORd Member

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    k this girl is preaty close the friends i hang out with. and we ocassionally do activities together as a group. it would be kinda akward asking her togo out wouldent it?>
     
  19. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    where does she work?
    isnt there any reasonable excuse u can make up to approach her?


    if she is close to ur friends it shouldnt be too hard to find out or get an idea of what she likes i guess....=/
    analyze!!
     
  20. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    not awkward at all. now you have the perfect excuse to call her!