"USING" is the right word, if you are correctly describing the situation there. She's deliberately trying to invite single females to hook up with her poor, deprived male friends.. what else could it be? All I gotta say is, that's some fucked up party right there. Even if she had a huge intention in hooking up her friends, she should've just made it a big party by inviting all other friends, single or not, to make it NOT seem like a hook-up party. If I was invited to a hook-up party, I would probably not want to go unless I knew a good number of people there to chill, not just a buncha stranger males standing around waiting to be tested. Again, it seems like you're anxious to see her, yet she isn't showing the same for you. In my opinion, she probably invited you because you happened to call her during her planning and she instantly thought "oh, that person I knew a while ago... she should be a good candidate for this contest, I'll invite her so there'll be more singles!"
i love my alchohol. does this make me a bad person? do u also use a lot of quotes from the bible in real life as well?
I am anxious to see her, and even though this isn't a very good situation, i'm going to see if i CAN make it into a positive experiance. ohhhhhhh, hard to tell on the internet, no tonage i share sad events, because there is a rant fourm in which people are encouraged to speak their mind on negative issues, vent their fustration, and an area where people can gather advice i have many positive events too, just dont see a forum to do so, and they are also so trival people would think, why is she wasting a thread on this you know what PA needs, a ANTI RANT fourm, where people can share their happy stories
I know people'd just tell you to go, but I wouldn't go .. cus I don't like to be around people who don't really want to see me if you want to hang out with her, schedule something with her, and if she says no, then I don't think I'd wanna hang out with someone who just wants to use me anyways ..
^but but she says she wants to see her friend sooo badly, although her friend probably doesnt feel the same!
maybe she does want to see you too, but just killing 2 birds with one stone. id give her the benefit of the doubt and id ask her about it wen i see her
SOOOOOOOOOOO i went to see her yea she didn't really care to see me, sad but it was worth while going, because there were other old friends i haven't seen in a while, and i got back into contact with them. As for this "single guy" i kinda didn't talk to him, becuase i wasn't there to be set up, and it's not like i see lots of these other old friends in a while, and so i reallly did want to catch up with some of them I also didn't stay long, i made excuses up front that i couldn't stay
I think you should go....cuz you get to meet more ppl =) Oo damn my reply is slow lol...anyways nice you went ^__^. LOL poor single guy.... =*(
