just go out and make some new friends is my answer, you dont have to ditch your old one but you have new fun friends also
that's life!! once u start working and getting life together, it starts to become boring and very routine-like.. hence why everyone says enjoy ur school days! hahahahahaa... with that said.. i hate school >.<
u know... u don't have to hang out with ur close fds all the time... ppl have ur different interest... u can hangout with ur exciting fds most of the time n when u feel like doing boring stuff u can go to ur broing fds... if they r real fds they'd b happy to c ur enjoying wot ur doing... i'd b one of those u consider as boring fds... but i have a really really close fd who goes out almost every night we haven't really seen each other for yrs... but both of us know our friendship is still as strong as ever... i'm one of the person she trusts most n i trust her too... she calls me whenever she's feeling down n tells me i'm one of the very few ppl who can cheer her up...
lol.. thats how i feel with my childhood friends. we all parted different ways. and when i hang out with them, its not as fun. theres really nothing to do so we just go out and eat and talk. im content how our relationship is because even though i dont get to talk to them everyday. i know they will always be there.
i think boring is fine. just talk about funnay, interesting, or indepth convo. that's what i always do cause i notice a lot of silent moments from time to time but i always find ways to make each other laugh=D. i'm lucky to have 4 very close friends of mine. i just cannot believe it has been almost 10 yrs already. time flies.
lol i think i understand me too i started working this year and i have a group of friends who kinda do the same thing weekly and it gets really boring so i try to go out with other ppl instead but not like ditch them 100% but like, see them less or maybe do someting exciting, take time to plan something fun to do
Any way they are your true friends.The job or hard work they are doing should be making them feel tired .Try to make them vigorous in their approach to enjoy life.Ask them to hang out after taking rest.I am sure they will be no more lazy persons.
