Dating Friends....

hey, just would like 2 open this thread 2 ask u guys of pa - on what ur views on dating friends. Recently I broke up with a friend who gt really close - closer than just normal "friends"...but i gues my education and stuff were on the line cos of this year being my final academic year before i leave 2 go to uni in like 9 months time...so any views?

 

u can date and get ready you just have to find a balance i mean if you really like this friend u should try to make it work. or you ma lose the friend as evena friend as it would feel awkward to talk to them and hang out.

propably not good advice its just from my eperience

 

yea thats what i hav learnt not 2 do now...hopefully this wd never happen again 2 me...

 

Theres nothing wrong about dating your friend, as long as you both dont feel pressured into it.

 

i keep a distance from my male fds... so this will never happen

 

theres nothing wrong with dating ur friend. good thing is u don't have to really get to know them cause u already know them. u guys have mutual friends so hanging out won't feel awkward.

 

I agreed with Ah_wong.

 

Then where do you find your bfs? @ the grocery store? -shock

 

atm not looking for one... so it's better to keep a distance...

in the past it's more like "a fd's fd's fds" so not really that close with my group hehe...

most guys at grocery stores r high skool kids n i'm not into boys that r younger than me -tongue2

 

but doesnt it make it awkward to date a frd's 3 times remote?

 

hmmmmm... ummm... nope...

it works out better for me coz i can keep him seperate from my fds... that way i get my own personal space when i hang out with fds...

 

^-lol, girls will always be hard to figure out.

 

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they say if u know one guy u fingure out all guys... but even if u know all women there's no way u can figure them out we r complicated creatures... too emotional n complicated for men to understand...

but i think i'm a weird case... a lot of girls r clingy... but i need a lot of personal space... i find it annoying if a guy calls me more than once a day... i guess i'm too used to being single...

 

mayb its time to change dawn~
hehehhehe

 

y do i need to change if i'm happy??

 

If i know all women, i wouldnt even bother trying to figure them out... they'll be the ones giving me a good time -lol

Nah, ive some friends that are like that too.

You must have very high standards for a companion if youve been used to being single -ohmy

 

i don't think i'm high standard... i'm just not in the mood hahaha... can't force myself when i don't have the feelings... just need to find a relationship i'm comfortable in

 

i think sometime dating a friend it suck, cause once you guys broke up, the friendship would not be there same any more.

 

Wish you mucho success in your everlasting quest

True but in some cases, you get even closer to your ex then when you were a couple.