ahhh man, im so stress, i feel like i have so many things i want to explore, experience and do, but having a girlfriend is screwing it all over, but the thing is i dont want to hurt her and she's nice and stuff n there for me, but the thing is we dont have any in comment and in fact she lost all her friends for me and now i feel like im stuck in the middle and i cant break it off with her. awww man i donno what to do or how to even do it and plus january the first im leaving to ny for 5 months to take care of some things for school and when i come back i know im gonna be even less interested in her, help me what should i do? i mean at times i feel like that i really want to keep her because she's very intelligent, honest, and very kind heart it but what's missing in her is making me feel happy and too much cant explain it. if you know what im talking about, so help me!!
sounds like she's too clingy n ur just bored of her... but sometimes u dun wanna let go coz ur used to having her in ur life... if only she's just there n u get to choose to c her when ever u want... oh well... life isn't perfect... n i don't think it's neither ur's or her fault... most relationships get to this stage eventually n very few ppl manage to over come it... if u wanna break up with her don't give urself the excuse of "oh i dun wanna hurt her... if only there's a way that wouldn't b painful..." if i knew a way to breakup with someone without hurting that person i'd b richer than J.K. Rowling... if u want wot's best for her... tell her the truth... tell her that the relationship is suffocating u... b completely honest with her... that way she learns from it... n ur not giving her fake hopes n she gets over it quicker... but if u really wanna give ur relationship a bit more time... then tell her how ur feeling n suggest a lil break for like a month or 2 n c how both of u r feeling... usually if she agrees to a break n it doesn't work then a breakup is a bit easier... good luck!!
does this have anything to do with the u just getting bored with her? i'm just saying this because i remember u posting a sex thread. or maybe u are turning gay....i kid i kid.
maybe you should tell her you need more space away from her to do other thhings in life... it doesn't mean you necessary need to break up with her. and maybe your life right now is just needs new things and you're getting bored but it may have nothing to do with your girlfriend. but bottom line if you really don't have feelings for her, you're best off just getting it over with and call it off.
u want to explore and all that eh? sounds like ur not even ready for commitment i really want to keep her because she's very intelligent, honest, and very kind heart ----> but the thing is we dont have any in comment Do i even have to answer ur Q? if u say uve got nothin in common then just ditch her....yes straight to the point
three words. "let's break up." tell her straight up what's the problem. a good sentence would be "it's not me, it's you" ( i'm serious here). and MOVE ON. when she cry, don't comfort her. let her cry til she can't cry no more. she will realize the problem or consider you a jerk. either way, she will be hurt. no doubt about it. go find yourself another girl.
damn.. a girl losing all the friends for a guy... if my gf was like that, id break up.. i mean, i dont want to have a gf whos a freaking moon around me.. in fact, i think its pretty damn reckless to lose friends like that. anything and everything can be balanced. so no excuse not to be able to balance friends and lover. yea.. i realized i havent answered the question lol
