it doesn't matter to me coz i dun believe friendship from male r genuin anyway kekeke... tanku tanku -lol it's gonna lots n lots of work... puahahahaha... but looking forward to it...
Now now Dawn, dont step on us males. Just bc you got some bad apples in your life doesnt mean that all are like that. -innocent
awwww.... nah dun get me wrong... i don't mean saying all men r bastards kekeke... wot i mean when i said they r not offereing a genuin friendship is that they r attracted to the girl when they try to get close to her... a girl can b friends with a guy for years thinking "ahhhh wot a nice buddy" then one day he mite tell her that he's liked her for all those yrs... i got guy fds that sworn to me he's got no feelings for me... tells me he just feels comfortable around me... n when we're in the movies he tries to "warm up" my hands n stroke them... i pulled away of coz... n i thought "just fds" my ass... they're nice guys... not bad apples... but i don't think the friendship is genuin like girls offer...
Aviolet is a volunteer. Maybe you can try him out. hahaha Thanks for the trick about warming the hands. Thats a slick one. Maybe you are right in some cases, cuz men are goal oriented Can i be your friend cute Dawny -whistle I think guys do offer genuine friendship but in many instances, just dont know how to express it properly. Say for example, you go out on a cold nite, the guy sees that you are shivering, and he gives you his jacket but that doesnt necessarily means that hes making a move but simply caring as a friend. Could it be because women have a preset mind thinking that guys are always goal oriented when they appear to be caring and hence women have a distrust or reluctance in believing the opposite sex capable of non goal oriented actions?
haha... yeah i know men r goal orientated... n they usually prefer being fds with guys coz women r emotional centric... they talk too much... n too well ummm... unpredictable hahaha... of coz u can b my fwend... even tho i'm not cute hahahaha... i still have guy fds... but i just keep a distance n i dun "hang out" with them one on one... well... at least avoid it whenever possible hahaha... -lol unless it's someone i'm interested in of coz -whistle
^ Dawn is not a cutie?!?!? then i would expect no less than sexy or hot -bigsmile -drool You must be a bad apple too cuz you are goal oriented. -rotfl
hahahaha.. really?? i sound goal orientated?? hmmmmm... i guess that's a good thing -^_^ nah... not sexy or hot... miss angie is the hot stuff -inlove
awwww... thanks... that's sooooo sweet ^^ i get one vote... woohoo!! -clapclap but i still won't date a fd hahaha... coz if i want a guy i would've made some kinda move before the "friendship" developes too much... -whistle
^ Sounds like you have some sort of secret identities. Friends is 1 part, anf bf is another part where both should not mingle.-lol
well u see it all the time ppl who are gd friends getting together and it works in some cases and not in others. it depends each case is different so u can't rele say dating friends is a gd or a bad thing. i mean if its all works out then its gd and u have the benefit that u already know them rele well in the first place. however, if it doesn't work out u could end up losing a gd friend.
like i said i need lots of personal space... n i'm sure he needs his as well... i dun mind introducing my fds to him... but i wouldn't want them to mingle
you wouldnt happen to have written a contract for your future bfs to sign rite? Rule #1 If you date me, you cannot meet my friends.... my friends are my friends and y'all shouldnt mingle!! Rule #2 I need lots of space and so on and so on -lol
hahahaha... nah... i keep that contract for marriage hahahaha j/k -lol i'm just a lil smarter n a lil more 溫柔 than that... i've learnt not to use force on men... if i want something done my way i'll find a way to make him do it willingly v
hahaha... well i wouldn't say i'm an expert... but if u manage to make a guy fall for u... u can basically get him to do anything for u... it just depends on the way u "ask" for it -whistle...
