so this girl and i have liked each other for a whileeeee now except we only realized about a month ago. i was gonna ask her out formally so i asked her to come to the movies with me (about 2 weeks ago) but since i had exams, and then later she got sick, and then after i got sick, basically things got delayed. i was supposed to go with her tonight, but she told me she doesnt wanna do anything anymore. n nowww im sitting at home on PA -clapclap lost interest?
Did she mean anything anymore for good or only this couple days? Try to talk to her and see whats going on.
anything anymore for today i asked her if she still wants to go to the movies, n she said no, i dont wanna do anything n we were gonna go as friends but then ask her out at the movies its really weird because she kept saying "lets go to the movies!! hurry, pick a day!! i have to tell you something!!" we were on msn but she said shed only tell me in person but now she doesnt wanna do anything
hahah I wonder if it's the same girl from Aznguys thread trying to play both of yall.. -lol.. Trust me.. PA is all you need!! leave the girl... step into the dark side! -devil. or you could just schedule another date with her.. maybe somethin came up... made her not in the mood to do anything?? hahah yea.. something new.. like getting with a new girl....
aiya... do all guys give up so easity??? >.< she liked u for a while... n maybe the feelings r fading... it can happen quiet easily...
yea i think shes done i keep trying to talk to her, but shes only giving me blunt one word answers called her, but she had to go... n shes starting to become busy when shes really not i wouldnt give up just yet but if i knew there was no way to reverse this then i wouldnt bother trying should i put some effort, or leave it and move on?
Time to "appear" to move on. If shes looking for you during this period, means that she still likes you but if not, forget about her and find someone else.
shoot i dont like to be a quitter wowowow no wonder gay men exist in this world because of youuuu XX chromosomers
^^Do you know any of her friends, what not ask them what she thinks of you? It really sounds like she's through with you though. You had your chance but you delayed it; you could have still asked her out but you took too long to ask. If you were more assertive you would not be talking about this; so take this as a learning experience and don't wait next time.
of coz la... our time is ticking... if u dun make a move soon then we move on -whistle... or she mite've met someone else...
You snooze, you loose my friend. Assume nothing, just keep up the communication and always be respectful. Don't fear rejection and let your feelings be known, the worst that can happen is that you will end up as friends and that is a lot better than having someone to despise.
Not agree, it's not about fast and slow, it's about passion there ... Maybe you and her got some misunderstanding in between, try to sort it out ...
hahaha... it's been months!! that's not impatient... n we can't help it... if the feelings r gone they r gone... we can just date u with no feelings n lead u on...-lol
if you think she's lost interest in you. Why not just throw it out there? and say "hey, did you know i like u?" to see how she reacts. And... depending on her reaction (disgust) you say "oh as a friend, your a really good friend". And if she responds anything else, then... you're on you own to decipher what it means
