Hey guys... My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me some 3 months ago. He wanted his freedom and he feels tied down. he feels I'll get in the way of making hs career or money, doing stuff he wants, whatever. Right now he regrets and wants a chance again. He feels he totally mistreated me and wanna start over. I have no idea what to do because i'm in the middle of the phase of transitioning between looking for a new guy and healing my old wounds. I never felt angry at him or even hate him even once when we broke up or after we broke up. no idea why.... Advice? And he asked me to go countdown with him cuz he wanted company.... Should I?
if you havent completely moved on.. then you should probably give that guy another chance.. I mean if you're not doing anything.. might as well just hang out with him and see if you feel the same way you do about him..
hmm .. well I guess if he wants to try again and you're not over him completely, you could try it out? that way, you could either get back together with him, or get some closure
hahaha yes michelly.. thanks for saying the same thing I said but re-worded... what you should do is start all over again... don't quickly jump back into the relationship and next thing you know.. you realize you're already over him and then he'll be super let down..
^ haha oh really? didn't really read your response -tongue2 and besides, there isn't really anything different one can say but actually now that I think about it, do you really wanna get back with him? if he mistreated you once, he can do it again
he didn't really mistreated her.. just that he had to get his priorities straight.. if hes got a nice career n making lotta money.. I don't think you need to think twice about gettin back wit him right? -lol
yeah but he said he felt tied down and he might be the type that only wants her because he doesn't have her and then if they get back together, he might feel the same way again
or he coulda put lotta thought into getting back with her and realized how wrong he was..? hahah seriously tho... if he realizes she could potentially tie him down again.. why bother trying to get back with her? that's like trying to buy a McDonalds hamburger again after knowing the employees spit on them... who does that? lol
^ lol cus it's so good. YUM (but ew no mcdonalds is disgusting ..) well we won't really know what he's thinking I'm just thinking of possibilities why he wants her back again and what might happen if they get back together
yea.. well it's mainly how she still feels about the girl consider shes 'transitioning' to looking for a new guy... I think she should post a pic up of herself so we can see how easy or hard of a transition that will be? yea? -lol
I'm sure the transition is very easy .. lol well if she really likes the guy, then she'll try it again no matter if he's changed or not here's hoping he's changed for the better *crosses fingers
hahah here's to hoping she don't nag him as much and drive him away.. *crosses fingers! and what are u doing still up? hahhah ain't it pretty late where you are?
hmmmm...ok.... .i wouldnt get back together with him cuz he dumped u and u didnt do anythin wrong... he didnt appreciate what he had and now he regrets it im pretty sure he thought it through before he broke up with u... and now things dont work the way he thought they would go and he wants to get back with u? he broke ur heart cuz he needed freedom and thought ud be an obstacle...=/ im sorry thats how i see things ur already trying to heal ur wounds and looking for a new guy... if i were u id keep doing that one thing ive learned from my past relationship: once u break up...u shouldnt get back together again but then again...its kinda hard if uve got a very big weak for the guy....hmmm
' thas cause they're the ones who dumped you righ? -lol maybe she should get back with him because he's so generous and willing to accept all her past flaws to get back with her.. hey who knows?? -lol
righ.. and how did that turn.. damn you got experience and not even sharing.. tsk tsk... and damn.. why you call my girl Jamien an obstacle like she some kinda rock hella tying him down and wouldn't let him go.... thas messed up man... he probably didn't much going for him and he had to get his ish together and didn't actually want to tie her down but in turn told her she was tying him down so he could break it off easier without feeling bad about it.... and now that he's got a nice career making whole lotta money and all he wants to do is put you in that Benz and buy you the finer things in life and you having doubts of getting back with him!!?!
"He wanted his freedom and he feels tied down. he feels I'll get in the way of making hs career or money, doing stuff he wants, whatever." if a guy would say that to me... id feel like an obstacle....? if a guy says that to me....id take it as...he doesnt love me enough if he did he would be sacrificing me and dump me for his "career & freedom" he could tell her he needs more time and space...but wouldnt risk losing her...=/ how did it turn out? i was single within like 4 months.....is that answer clear enough?
hahaha yea crystal clear... you didn't manage to lose the weight did you?? tsk tsk... -lol but hey.. maybe she thought that and he didn't actually say that! or he appeared to look that way..
Oh shit...that was harsh! u mother....:@! -bash if shes not even clear about the reason why the hell he broke up with her...theres definitely something wrong with their communication too...so... that aint good!!
well she getting back together him will either make their relationship stronger or make it worst.. but damn.. it's been 3 years... if there was not enough good points in the relationship for you to get back with him.. just move on!! And do it quickly... you're not getting any younger.. and neither is angie.. hwhwhahaha..
