How does one feel when someone you hate dies

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Jan 4, 2008.

  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    bit of a morbid question

    but i always wonder that


    I know someone who recently past away,
    but she was one of those mother in laws you HATE, only because you HATES you so much she tries to ruin your life and your relationship.

    I wonder how that daughter in law feels when the mother in law passes away
     
  2. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Remorse and guilt for not having patched things up before she died?
     
  3. adeliemiao

    adeliemiao New Member

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    i feel nothing... hmmmm

    cuz i dont bother the people i hate..
     
  4. rNb99

    rNb99 Well-Known Member

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    i think i can imagine myself feeling sad about that person's death but i won't cry though.
     
  5. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    well I probably wouldn't cry over them all the time ..
    but I'd still feel sad for anyone who dies
    and besides, they're family, and the loss of family or friends is the worst
     
  6. cicipeepee

    cicipeepee Active Member

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    i think she would bad for not making up and trying to make things work out.. i mean it is a somewhat half family member right?
     
  7. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    I had a "supervisor" that passed away and EVERYONE hated him cuz he was an arse. After our department found out, there was one woman boss that claimed that it was her birthday and threw a party. She had every cheer and scream. -lol
     
  8. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    eh that's just weird

    i wonder if people really screamed, or just had like a fake laugh and smile one
     
  9. khaotic

    khaotic Fobulous

    It depends on my degree of hatred. If the hatred was justified enough I would most likely feel no sadness, or regret for the loss. There is a possibility that I would deep down feel some sort of happiness, but that all depends again on the degree of my hatred. Most likely i would just act like the death of the loss one was the same as the loss of an unknown person in my life.

    Difficult question to answer, since I honestly can't imagine myself in this position.
     
  10. i wouldnt care tbh... someone i hate, is someone i dont really care about, so why waste time thinking about it
     
  11. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    it aint that weird I think. I didnt like the guy either, but when the lady boss did all that (getting all the cheers and laughing out loud), it really removes all the "hate" ...like stomping on the guys grave or somthing...I didnt think he really deserve it though...

    think ppl wan the fuker dead or something. -lol
     
  12. frostshards

    frostshards Well-Known Member

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    i would feel guilty, guilty bceause of the fact that i dont feel that sadabout it, i would probably try to delude myself by telling myself im sad. lol
     
  13. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    i would feel guilty maib slightly sad that i lost an enemy
     
  14. dim8sum

    dim8sum ♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪....

    tbh i dont think i would care about it too much, it would be a shock that someone i knew died, but since i hated them, it doesnt seem like it would really affect me much
     
  15. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    If its Hate, being a strong word that it is, not even worth a second though from my end.
     
  16. tiffer858

    tiffer858 Well-Known Member

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    if you hate them that much to actually say "i hate you" instead of "i strongly dislike you" then why would you care if they pasted away
     
  17. SugaCutie0

    SugaCutie0 Well-Known Member

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    I have never hated a person so much to the degree that if they died I would be like: -clapclap-bigclap-clapclap lol If someone I disliked died, I would be abit sad, as mentioned before, its still a life.
     
  18. Adidas

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    Not that good, because they probably know my hate towards them, and I have a phobia of being haunted by someone.