LOL this is offtopic now xD if you are social worker, you woudl come to realise not eveyrone who kills is a "bad person"
sometimes when we are mentally driven into a corner we do things we dont normally do for self protection. sometimes we should understand this.
honestly, i would like to believe that i can overlook someone's past but i don't think i really can. if he shot someone for no reason, then that's a definite no. however, if he did have a reason (like what most said) then i will consider but i would still be leaning towards no more.
Hmmm..... where feelings are concerned, theres simply no clear cut area. Everything is sort of grayish since love literally makes us fall for that person and in regardless of what and how that person is.
true that. but still...i dunno...just watched the news and like there was a big case about pedophiles...how does one even accept that?
Logic doesnt always mingle well with emotions unfortunately. Logic can be influenced by so many factors but emotions are based on hormones and something intangible inside us that cannot be grasped by words. We can draw a clear cut line when we are not experiencing the event but when it happens to us, so many possible scenarios could open up. Who knows, maybe one day scientists can truly explain what makes us tick or not.
murder means they did it on purpose. how do you look past that? ever know someone that has been murdered, i do and after that there are just some things you can never get over. what i am saying is - if it were an accident then yes i could totally look past it. murder - never. to take someones life intentionally affects so many ppl that you cant even begin to imagine. you take someones life like that you should be locked up forever and you should never be allowed back into society.
Awe...i would die...lol...maybe im too young to say anything... but if i really like that person and i know hes changed...i mite think it over....
wahou... murder... at first, you should talk to him and see how he is, what kind of person he is. I understand you never really have a discussion with him, because you said" i recently found out"
i dont think he changed lol i think what op was saying is that she met somebody, was attracted to him, and then later found uot that he was in jail for murder previously. he must be a juvenille delinquent then right? cuz theres no way he would be let out so early if he was an adult.
Um..-sweat I never said that I wanted to date him. I wouldnt, and its not just because he murdered someone, I just dont like him like that. He was on drugs when he did it lol that makes him sound worst. To be honest, if you ever met him, you'd never know that he killed someone, he was so polite and seemed nice. He's 24 this year btw.
LOL! but now you run the risk of: after you reject him he gets depressed, goes on drugs, goes crazy, shoots you. =\ very risky indeed...
^ lol that's mean to say and alil scary, I admit it.. -unsure Hm, I kinda feel sorry for him. Anywayyy..
I dont think it is even possible to have a normal chat with him, since you know that he killed someone. You wont feel relaxed or something, I mean it's not like you are friends... Knowing that he killed someone, you will have some distance and I dont think that a normal chat will happen. Originally Posted by SugaCutie0 View Post Somehow he developed feelings me, but I wasnt really interested in him in that way. You wasn't really interested in him -what? Lol you were playing him? -lol And you found out he killed someone and might -bash you?
lmao nah, I wasnt playing him or anything like that...-innocent Besides, I dont think he would snap and kill anyone again, to be honest, because of the circumstance that he was under when he killed that guy. He was with some "friends" and they got him high on some stuff and told him to shoot the guy and he did it. From what I've been told, he doesnt even remember doing it, he just vaguely remembers when the gun went off. "Knowing that he killed someone, you will have some distance and I dont think that a normal chat will happen." I know.. He doesnt know that I know, so even then it would kinda be weird if we were to just be normal aquintances. Thats why I say that I kinda feel sorry for him..
Oh...if that's the case then i wouldn't mind. It isn't entirely his fault. He wasn't 'alert' because his friends were idiots.
^ Well you still have the thoughts *He is a murder, he might kill me, he is a murder*. It's just like: If someone stole something, you can't trust them anymore.... Even if he/she said sorry... You will become more alerted, when he is around. -whistle
