Being fat/skinny matter to opposite sex?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by aniking_7, Jan 29, 2008.

  1. aniking_7

    aniking_7 Well-Known Member

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    It matters a lot I think b/c too much gossips about your lover if they are fat or skinny and is just like being too short or weak.
     
  2. khaotic

    khaotic Fobulous

    The truth:

    We cannot help but to judge others on first impressions. To avoid doing so would be to attempting to be inhuman. It's true that when I see a skinny girl/guy with a fat guy/girl I would think it was a little awkward. But I would soon realize that if their love is strong enough then.. Why not be together?
     
  3. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    question is entirely subjective. no point in discussing it, some people prefer skinny chicks/dudes, others will prefer fat chicks/dudes.
     
  4. Adidas

    Adidas Well-Known Member

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    Yes, and people can say all the sh** about personality matters the most; it does matter, but looks matter just as much.
     
  5. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    His infamous threads are back with full force...

    I think people who worry about gossip (about his/her girlfriend/boyfriend) are stupid enough so it doesn't matter much anyways.

    Do you disown yourself (from your family) because your friends gossip about the way your parents look? How 13 is that?
     
  6. shadowchi

    shadowchi ~~♫ ♫ ♪ Himitsu ♪ ♫ ♫ ~~

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    On the first impression when I see some skinny dude together with some fat girl, I am like *omg*

    But who I am to judge, it isn't my life. And I dont have the right to say anything about them.
    It's isn't my girlfriend....
    So if he likes her, why does it bother you....

    So, I do think it does bug you how others look at you. But you shouldn't put much thought about it, since they dont have to right to say anything about you.
     
  7. dood... u really need to find something else to do when ur constipated...
     
  8. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    If you are really in love with your partner, what does it matter about what other ppl think?
     
  9. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Then it means you dont love her as much as you say you are :p
     
  10. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    this doesn't matter personality is the most important and then if they are a little overweight it doesn't matter too much cos they can always lose weight and if they are too skinny they can always gain weight. its not like they are not gonna do it cos it will benefit them to be healthier and if they rele love u then they will do it.
     
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    ANDY LAU!!! -inlove
     
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  12. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Is that you and him -lol
     
  13. yup yup... dun we make a good couple?? -blush2
     
  14. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol could i ask, whered he buy that fat cream ^^ i want some lol
     
  15. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    u guys gotta admit..his threads are becoming a bit more "normal" these days hahaha

    who cares about what other ppl think about ur lover... ur the one who has to face him/her every day =/
    if u really like someone u wont care

    lol dude...thats totally irrelevant
     
  16. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Normalcy is overrated, as long as it's not like those so totally obvious would-you-rather-be-dead-or-alive type one-liner...

    Not an ounce less creepy though.
     
  17. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    excuse my imagination...

    but the first thing I thought of when I was reading this thread and looking at the pic..."jack 4" :) so i would rather be the fat one . hehe
     
  18. neko-pochi

    neko-pochi Well-Known Member

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    I don't really get it... What is there to gossip about someone being fat or skinny? o_O Why should anyone care about if a stranger is fat or skinny?

    And if you're afraid to be with someone you really like just because of what others will think of you, you lack in self confidence and you're pretty shallow. *nods*
     
  19. hot wings

    hot wings Well-Known Member

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    tbh i dont really mind fat or skinny, but as it turned out my current gf is a size zero hmmm went shopping w/ her yesterday, man was it hard to find something to fitted her :/
     
  20. uryu

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    im hella shallow, thats probably im single, i do think size matter, regardless of what you say, because deep down, you don't wanna look like a freak, or make your opposite look like a freak. Yes, personality will match first with some people, but eventually the physical look will still not balance and one will feel bad compared to another.

    that's just me tho -.- im pretty shallow, thats y im single (repeat!)