Height problem?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by lancerWRX2003, Feb 7, 2008.

  1. lancerWRX2003

    lancerWRX2003 Banned

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    I have been in a relationship with my gf for almost 1 year. Recently she started to judge my height. She said I am short, skinny, and all types of excuse. I am 5' 10 and weight 155lb. Do i consider short? I just don't get her point.-censored
     
  2. uryu

    uryu Well-Known Member

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    damn, that's not bad at all, wth? im 5'11 140 i don't consider my self skinny, is it that u have no muscle?
     
  3. neko-pochi

    neko-pochi Well-Known Member

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    I think that's average height for a guy... unless you live in Norway. Heard average height goes above 6 foot. :/ How tall is your gf? Maybe she just wants you to build up those pectorals and muscles but is using a pretty crappy way to tell you.
     
  4. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    im short...i am 5 3...
     
  5. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    @ OP, your height is not short at all. Maybe shes looking for an excuse to dump you?
     
  6. lancerWRX2003

    lancerWRX2003 Banned

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    No, not fat. I like doing break dancing, so i keep my body in shape
     
  7. dave709394

    dave709394 Well-Known Member

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    there are plenty of guys thats shorter than you (my self included). Either she thinks your out of shape or she is attracted to someone else
     
  8. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    if shes judgin u then y is she still with u lol
     
  9. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    she's just being a brat.
     
  10. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    spoiled brat....never happy with what they have....

    sad...
     
  11. -steffi-

    -steffi- Well-Known Member

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    welllll depends on how tall ur gf is i guess......
     
  12. MissCheekS

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    pft....and she complains about it after being together for a year...what a bitch....=X sorry
     
  13. lancerWRX2003

    lancerWRX2003 Banned

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    my gf is about 5'4 to 5'5. I dont think i want to hear anymore of her comments, i might try to break up with her. Troublesome....
     
  14. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    dude...ask her what her problem is man...im sure thats not the real issue here.....she makin excuses
     
  15. surplusletterbox

    surplusletterbox Well-Known Member

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    Your loving relationship with her had ended with her questioning a physical quality for which you can do absolutely nothing about. You will not be able to tolerate her as she will continue to moan about things and make impossible demands. There is nothing you can do about your height and this is an excuse for her to justify why she does not like you anymore. Until your love for each other had progressed these tangible qualities (height, money, whiteness of teeth, parents' approval...) will be inhibitors to fostering a loving relationship. To put this candidly, your issue is not the height, it is your love.
     
    #15 surplusletterbox, Feb 8, 2008
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  16. happy18

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    you have an ideal height. maybe you should look around to decide for yourself.
     
  17. locoroco

    locoroco Active Member

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    if she judges and criticize you than obviously there is something wrong in your relationship. when a girl is in love with you, they only see the good and even the bad is good in their eyes.
     
  18. missdiorcherie

    missdiorcherie Well-Known Member

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    Before to be with you ,she know what is your height ;Why she judge and critizise your height now ?
    So i think the real problem is not your height but something else
     
  19. Chibi12

    Chibi12 Well-Known Member

    erm together for a yr, ur height and weight is just an excuse for an arguement, something else would be wrong. As for ur height and weight - dnt sound like a prob. to me, y have a prob. with it nw and not b4 wen u only started to go out?
     
  20. inahss

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    ditto.